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IIN that I can only orgasim??
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IIN that I can only orgasim if I imagine my partner having sex with another woman? I imagine us having a threesome usually. By the way I do think that I am bi sexual. I have been with girls in the past when I was in my teenage years and early 20's. As I have a daughter now, them days are behind me. We are together 3 years, I have never brought the topic up out of embarrassment, we don't really communicate about sexual stuff. I have tried but don't think he feels comfortable talking about them things, I wish we did have that sexual connection cause sometimes I just don't feel satisfied with our sex life or relationship. This whole situation is so confusing.
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comfortable or not the two of you desperately need to talk about this. Failure to communicate will only cause more and more problems.
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@: MR.mr
Thanks for your advice, talked it out..it's all good.
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@: MR.mr
Your 100% true to your words but I have tried, I have expressed my sexual desires, while we have been in bed together, but I don't think he takes it seriously. Reason being is cause I don't think he is a very sexual person. Now I haven't told him that I can only orgasim if I imagine us in a threesome, I just feel that could stir the pot, like 3 years is a long time. Maybe I'm afraid he will think i am weird.
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cunt_eater
Do you suck his cock when it comes out of your asshole ?
Is your cunt bald ?
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Ha ha, your not normal, best place for ya
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cunt_eater
You cant even spell , so you being a high school drop - out to spread your legs for everything under the sun is not normal.
HA HA
Your spelling is atrocious.
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Says the loner, who sits around on his computer alday trolling people and writing Atrocious comments. It must get you off, cause why else would you do it. Oh yeah cause your a sad act with a face like a bulldogs arse. I wouldn't touch you with your own fathers cock nor your mothers. Give you a taste of your own medicine you limp dick man boy. Ha ha. When your good, your good. Peace out ✌️️
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I know the feeling of having a one sided sexual relationship with a partner. My wife didn't get as sexually aroused as I did during sex. If I spoke during sex she would lose interest and we would just stop. One night about a year ago I told her about my sexual fantasies being threesomes, swinging and her having sex with another man. She wasn't too happy about it at first but eventually realised that it turned me on and led to better sex for both of us.
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@: Bobup
Thanks for your advice bobup, I appriciate your story. My partner is aroused while we have sex, he enjoys when I talk dirty to him too. It's just my fantasies, I haven't been able to murk up the courage to tell him that I get off on the thoughts of him having sex with another women.. for example, Sunday morning we had sex, I started talking dirty about a dream I had previously had weeks ago about us having a foursome, he didn't seem that into that kind of dirty talk..just yeah yeah.. then after sex he jokes..they were fighting over your cock..and he laughed. I felt embarrassed and laughed it off too.. but deep down I just wanted to tell him.. Yes..that's what I'm into, I like the thoughts of having threesomes and and fighting over dick, it turns me on. This message probably seems very scattered. Apologies ;)
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No, your reply is clear to me as I know what you are going through. I was afraid to tell my wife about my sexual fantasies involving us in threesomes and foursomes etc. I did tell her things a little bit at a time, to test the waters but this led to me getting very frustrated because I hesitated and held things back. However, I plucked up the courage and told her about my sex fantasies, (especially with friends we both knew). As I said, she realised that my fantasies did improve our sex life so she now talks dirty back to me especially her previous experiences with other men. I now tell her how I would love to live out my fantasies starting with her having sex with a single male friend of ours.
I think that you are going the right way about it by telling him things as if a dream because it give you the opportunity to back track if it goes wrong. Now ask him what his fantasies are, you may be pleasantly surprised.
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@: Bobup
I commend you for plucking up the courage to tell your wife all you have. How long are you's together? The reason I ask is cause how long were you keeping all this to yourself before you told her. I have asked him his fantasies, he said he dose not have any, which I don't know weather to be believe. Sexually he is like a closed book, I ask him to talk dirty to me or what would he like me to say.. it's always I dunno, or he doesn't know what to say. He is a very shy guy and I do respect our differences..but it is frustrating. I do wonder weather you leave someone that you don't have a deep sexual connection with, is that a shallow statement to make. Is your wife willing to take it to the next level?
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I see your difficulties when a person doesn't open up to you. My wife and I have been married for nearly 20 years and both been married before. At the beginning of our relationship we experimented with each other first. We tried out many positions and sex games like dressing up. She would wear sexy underwear high heels etc. We would go out separately and meet up as if for the first time. As our relationship developed we became more routine and settled in our sex life. That is why I want to experiment further. I have had a threesome with another couple many years ago so I know what fun you can have. I will try to take things to the next level but I will also take it slowly. You could also try sex games and dressing up and see where it takes you. That way he doesn't have to say much.
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You find yourself in a extremely difficult position. The problem is that you cannot convince somebody to partake in a threesome without sounding a little sluttish. In all probability your partner will think that he is not man enough for you or that you have a problem with the size of his dick.

What I would do if I were in your position is that i would first find a "girlfriend" who would be interested in having a threesome with you and then introduce that "special friend" to your man one night over a couple glasses of wine. When everybody is nice and "tipsy", you and your "special friend" start things up by touching each other and kissing in front of him.

Start undressing each other with soft little kisses in the neck, on the lips, on the boobs etc. I assure you that he will be very eager to partake in the fun! Once you have done that once or twice suggest that you bring another man into the equation.

Once he has eaten some forbidden fruit he will find it extremely difficult to resist trying new boundaries!
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Thanks for your advice, il just see how things pan out.
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cunt_eater
If his cock doesnt get you off , then go back to eating cunts and female asses and sucking female tits.
Eat female cum and piss from theur twats and deep rim their poop chutes when they sit on your face until they cum , piss , fart , shit on your face , on your tits , on your belly and they smear it all over your belly with their ass cheeks and then you clean up their ass cheeks , ass cracks , assholes with your tongue.
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Woah, you put a lot of energy and effort into that comment. Well done, so proud. Yum yum..
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