IIN that I can only orgasim if I imagine my partner having sex with another woman? I imagine us having a threesome usually. By the way I do think that I am bi sexual. I have been with girls in the past when I was in my teenage years and early 20's. As I have a daughter now, them days are behind me. We are together 3 years, I have never brought the topic up out of embarrassment, we don't really communicate about sexual stuff. I have tried but don't think he feels comfortable talking about them things, I wish we did have that sexual connection cause sometimes I just don't feel satisfied with our sex life or relationship. This whole situation is so confusing.