Often times, with relationship posts, I see that there are many answers saying "You need to talk to that person about the issue that you are having and try to come to an agreement" and so on and so forth.
I am seeing a pattern here (curiously one that was mentioned in a communications class that I once took), that the solution to most of these relational problems is to just fucking talk to the person.
IIN that I feel that "just talk to them" is a stupidly common (yet necessary) IIN answer?
I am seeing a pattern here (curiously one that was mentioned in a communications class that I once took), that the solution to most of these relational problems is to just fucking talk to the person.
IIN that I feel that "just talk to them" is a stupidly common (yet necessary) IIN answer?
The IsItNormal community is one that believes there is a big old grassy hill with rainbows and hoping bunnies at the end of every problem. Anyone that understands that a lot of the times there is no point in trying to mend the relationship, they call you an asshole.
But I agree with you, some of these relationships are beyond salvation, people just don't like to admit that =/ 7 billion other people on Earth.
I would think that if you are having certain relational problems common sense dictates that you speak to them, however, the more I interact with others the more apparent it becomes that my idea of common sense may be a bit too... advanced....
I'm not sure I understand what you're trying to ask, but if it's why people don't just go ahead and do it, I think that's because it's such a hard thing to do. Much easier said than done.
Its a valid point and one I ironically agree with but what else can you expect? Generic questions breed generic Answers.
I just wonder sometimes how people get by with this lack of communication sense.