IIN that I'm afraid I'll be jealous of her if I have a baby girl?

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I think about that sometime but your husband will love you even more because you would be the mother of his child :)

Do you mean jealous of the attention that the baby receives over you? What is a DH?

DH= Dear husband.

I think it is normal. I have often wondered if I would have this problem, because I have always been envious of good Daddy?daughter relationships period...simply because I never had much of one.

Don't worry about being jealous of your daughter. When she's about 4 or 5, you'll start becoming jealous of other people's daughters.

There are a few ways to fix this. If your daughter is the best at everything, you won't have to feel jealous of any other mothers. Make sure she's always top of the class - homework must come before sleep. If any of her friends start ballet or piano, make her practice twice as hard as they do. If she starts riding, make sure her pony is twice as expensive as theirs. Enter her in beauty pageants whenever you can. Get her used to hair salons and mani/pedicures while she's still young. Don't ever let her eat meat, ice cream or chocolate - if she's never tempted by food, she'll never need to diet.

Remember everything you wanted to achieve in life but never did? It's up to your daughter now. Good luck.

TheStig, that's fucked up. I hope that's a troll comment. Poster, I don't think you have the right attitude about this. You should love your child just as much as your husband. Don't get caught up on how much attention is being given, just focus on how wonderful it is to bring a beautiful life into the world. Your child will be able to tell if you're not 100% sure you wanted it. I'm the second daughter in my family and my mother is like that. All my life I felt resentment from her. Don't ruin her confidence like my mother ruined mine.