I have a great friend who means the world to me. She has been there for me throught a lot and I have for her to. We've been getting veeerrry close now and I'm staring to really fall hard for her. She also seems to be interested in me and we're very physical with each other. (holding cuddeling even falling asleep on each other) However, she has a boyfriend who is a total jerk to her- I mean a real asshole and he somehow is Important enough to her that she refuses to break up with him. They fight all the time and here I would die for her. What's wrong here?