I asked my boyfriend to come with me for new years to my family to enjoy fireworks. He was staying at my house for the past 2 days, but when I mentioned this he all of a sudden had plans. He brags that he is a social butterfly yet says meeting families gives him anxiety. Yet he can go hang with his ex's family for Christmas, though they do have a daughter together. I try to be understanding but at this point I'm just really hurt & cried the whole way over. We've been together 3 months and I just really wanted to spend the holiday with him & my family. Now I just feel like he's using me to pass time because even knowing how upset I was he just left like it wasn't even a big deal. IIN?