I'm a nice, quiet and mature person in real life, but I constantly find myself feeling bad on things I could have done or constantly obsessed with the thought that I'd be a better person if Ive done what my friend said she would have done. I feel like you have to be a coldhearted bitch to be the best and the strongest.
Whenever I get into trouble and just ignore it, my friend would say " I would've flipped them off " I can't help thinking I would be so respected and at peace with myself if I do what she says she would do. Being a bad bitch isn't my nature and I feel more comfortable being chill in bad situations. Idk what i can do to be respected or looked as not a pushover. My friends method I know only attracts more trouble.
Whenever I get into trouble and just ignore it, my friend would say " I would've flipped them off " I can't help thinking I would be so respected and at peace with myself if I do what she says she would do. Being a bad bitch isn't my nature and I feel more comfortable being chill in bad situations. Idk what i can do to be respected or looked as not a pushover. My friends method I know only attracts more trouble.
I'm really very sick of people reacting to situations like how your friend does. If you're genuinely very angry, then it's understandable, and I think most people have those regrettable moments. Not every single time something doesn't go your way, though, the little childish brats! But most the time people are so bloody idiotic to deal with a situation properly. I'm sick of people acting like the don't "give a fuck" about anyone or anything, and I'm sick of them treating others poorly. Those people need to get some bloody manners, they do! It spreads a bad mood.
*Sigh*. Ok, rant over:P. You're fine the way you are, please don't become a complete twat.