Me and my Girl friend knew each other for almost 10 years since we were 7 years old. We were actually in love. But i think were not old enough to understand how important we were for each other. Long story short, At the age of 17 we were about to engage but because of some problems she ended up marrying somebody else!!! After her marriage we didn't contact for a year. And after a year she would somehow contact me once in a month or so and ask me about how my life was going!! It has already been 6 years and for past few days we are calling and chatting on regular basis and she told me she is not happy in her married life and her Husband doesn't treat her as she should be. He sometimes beat her badly too(not because of me). I felt like C'mon she's just 23 and she has needs from her Husband. Right now his concentration is totally in money making. In shortly she told me that her husband is not interested even kissing her(And let me tell you she's really one of the finest looking girl i have ever seen)!!!She has 4 year old Baby Girl too. Right now we are talking like we should have like that when we were about to engage!!
But we both know that the fact is that she's married. And i m single. While she is talking with me, i can feel that she's happy!! So after having the bad day if i am making her happy then let it be!! The thing i want to ask is that should i be in contact with her or not??
But we both know that the fact is that she's married. And i m single. While she is talking with me, i can feel that she's happy!! So after having the bad day if i am making her happy then let it be!! The thing i want to ask is that should i be in contact with her or not??
This made me laugh for some reason.
I meant to say her husband doesn't know about Us!!!
bcs that would really mess so many lives!!
And my parents will kill me :)
I say give it time. If its meant to be, it'll be. Maybe she'll end it. You're making her happy. That matters, right? She needs you right now. You sound like a good guy. If something were to ever happen, she'll always be able to look back and say that you helped her through a really tough time in her life. With that, she could think highly of you and take you back. Good luck!
Actually what i am thinking is if something goes wrong i don't want her to take any stupid steps like suicide or anything else. I want to make her feel that I am always there to listen to her problems and lighten up her mood!! That's why i am worried about her!!
And actually I can handle myself very well!!!It is not like that that i will fall in love with her again!!
Oh God i don't know what to do!!!
Her divorce is not an option!!!
Here in india it's not that easy to get separated!!!
Anyway, i'm sure even in India abuse is grounds for divorce.
Its just the will to do, if you don't have it you can't do it.
If you can't help her you're being a loser too. There are many NGO's to help women in this country. Girls should be vociferous to have a good status in society. How else they will get equality?
It's just that I am not feeling well bcs she's not happy!!!