And causes you to feel deeply humliated? This happened to me a few days ago and I was unable to control my feelings of anger and depression. Is this a normal reaction? How should a person feel when being lied about and humiliated? How could I have handled the situation to avoid becoming so upset and angry? I did not become loud or use profanity at all. But I felt steam must be coming from my ears I was so mad! Thoughts, please? I do not become extremely angry too often, but when I do - I really get HOT. My father had a very bad temper.