Ok, I have been with my boyfriend for almost eight years. We are both mid twenties and we have two kids. It was rocky for the first few years and we had a lot to learn about each other. Now we own a house, both have stable jobs and are comfortable. So, the big kicker is he has no intentions of marrying me at this point in our lives and I'm not sure I'm ready. However, there is no affection from him. He is a hard worker, doesn't drink, is a great person and dad... But, he never comments about how I look or how much he loves me. He does not hug, kiss, snuggle, or any of that (and yes I've asked politely). We do have sex and it is more than satisfying, but there is no passion, no yearning. I'm young, thin and not bad on the eyes and if I parade around for him in my undies I get no reaction, none, nothing, nadda! I get hit on frequently and I always ignore it and turn them down. But I want affection. Is it wrong to consider leaving someone who is stable and a good man just because I want physical contact? And how fair would that be to my children? Should I stay and live an ok stable life but never truly be happy, or be selfish and risk everything to find a person that will love me AND show me they love me and not just be a stable person?
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Do you have enough time apart from eachother? I realize it's probably difficult because you have children together, but I have experienced that occasionally being apart from eachother in the evening and going out with friends etc. can help rekindling that feeling of longing for eachother.
Just please don't judge your boyfriend just yet, he probably has similar feelings to yours but just expresses them through a lack of sexual interest instead of directly wanting to leave, guys are simple and pretty loyal like that once they are settled.
im sure no matter the guy you will be as annoying as hell say the same thing and realize your an idiot
if ur smart enough to remember
i hope you find a boyfriend whos a dumbslut just liek you and make your kids uncomfortable REALLY unhappy until they learn to hate you too after being disapointed again and again when ur around
why dont you think about your kids instead of your pussy