Well, that just proves my point entirely and you even admit it yourself, no diplomacy, because you don't know how. As for sick humor, that's just very childish and proves lack of respect for others. Sounds like you need some help to talk through major issues in your life that have made you so 'blunt'.
So in your own words, you're very focused on 'winning' hmm, so sick humour, blunt, competitive, anything else you'd like to share with everyone? You're doing a fantastic job proving what a ... lovely person you are.
Oh and by the way, read through the posts you've left, you're the one who got personal from the word go, saying it was a 'personal problem I had and that I was narrow minded'. Once again your ignorance shows through for not bothering to read anything properly before you comment, as with the OP.
Ok, ha a hypocrite too then, and this was just a thought to which I expected knowledgeable answers, not a 'projection' that's just your interpretation. Interesting, it seems you didn't read the original post at all, you're exactly the sort of person I meant when I said that people twist what is originally said.
I wasn't gentle about my answer. And I said it's your own problem if this offends you.
And I'm twisting nothing. In fact let's review what you've said to me.
"Ha, gosh you're a bit of a self riteous one aren't you," "but the way you talk just shows everyone your ignorance, you obviously weren't raised well," "Sounds like you need some help to talk through major issues in your life that have made you so 'blunt'." "Once again your ignorance shows through "
Funny how you keep making insults on my personality and my upbringing. Yet ... I've NEVER ONCE said anything like that about you. I said it was a "personal problem" if you didn't like my reply and that I don't sugar-coat things.
Yet .. I'm the one "twisting" things.
No. I'm only guilty of pointing out your own behavior and ... saying that your behavior towards me is far worse than anything I've done to you. You might not like being called out on it... but calling you out isn't a "personal attack". Unlike the things you keep trying to say about me.
Yawn! You're so desperate to justify yourself. That's fine, believe what you want, you wrote the comments in the first place without reading the original post properly and just as I mentioned in there, things get twisted into a rant by people. Seems your just another keyboard jockey with nothing better to do.
Arguments only work if you can refrain from using personal attacks to make a point. Otherwise it's just lashing out. If you can't do it then you can't win.
I don't sugar coat things either, as I said before if your posts had been intelligent then I would have been civil, but they weren't they were mis-informed rants, also maybe you shouldn't be so sensitive if you don't sugar coat anything for others, don't expect other peoples opinions of you to be sugar coated either. I've said what I think of you, I won't apologise or take them back because it is all there to see, you don't read things properly, you think you know everything but you're ignorant, there you go, enjoy! As I've said numerous times I was asking a question in the OP, not making a business plan, you mis-read and then had a little keyboard jockey rant about it. Go pick up your dummy and get back in the pram.
Each reply you make consists only of name calling and personal attacks.
Yet you want everyone to think I'm the one attacking you.
That's a bit like punching someone in the face while accusing them of punching you. It doesn't work that way. You can't call names and throw insults and then claim "Oh i'm the victim here". It doesn't work that way.
Haha, ok, try to justify yourself again, read who said a personal insult first, it was you. I'm happy to insult you until the ends of the earth, because I mean everything I've said and I'm just stating the obvious, if you're too sensitive to take it, you shouldn't have written a un-intelligent post in the first place.
I'm just being 'blunt and honest' maybe you don't like it when people are honest with you, you're just being slightly hypocrititical, you can be rude to others but you can't take it back?
I never attacked YOU. The only thing I came close to attacking was your idea. This is why you can't quote any of my personal attacks against you yet I can quote yours.
What YOU'RE doing is a bit like going up to someone and saying "You smell, smelly!*" and then claiming "it's OK cos it's the truth". Even if it's not true. You're just claiming it's truth in order to pretend you're not doing anything wrong.
The problem is... it's a pretty easy ploy to figure out. Which is why it isn't working for you yet.
* (quote taken from "The Young Ones". good show really.)
i never sugar coat. in fact that's what my profile says. you either get blunt honesty or sick humor. i apologize for neither
=)
As for sick humor, that's just very childish and proves lack of respect for others.
Sounds like you need some help to talk through major issues in your life that have made you so 'blunt'.
so again you still haven't won anything. *shrug*
You're doing a fantastic job proving what a ... lovely person you are.
Once again your ignorance shows through for not bothering to read anything properly before you comment, as with the OP.
you're just saying that because I accused you of it already.
The projection attempt did not pass the reality test.
Interesting, it seems you didn't read the original post at all, you're exactly the sort of person I meant when I said that people twist what is originally said.
I wasn't gentle about my answer. And I said it's your own problem if this offends you.
And I'm twisting nothing. In fact let's review what you've said to me.
"Ha, gosh you're a bit of a self riteous one aren't you,"
"but the way you talk just shows everyone your ignorance, you obviously weren't raised well,"
"Sounds like you need some help to talk through major issues in your life that have made you so 'blunt'."
"Once again your ignorance shows through "
Funny how you keep making insults on my personality and my upbringing. Yet ... I've NEVER ONCE said anything like that about you. I said it was a "personal problem" if you didn't like my reply and that I don't sugar-coat things.
Yet .. I'm the one "twisting" things.
No. I'm only guilty of pointing out your own behavior and ... saying that your behavior towards me is far worse than anything I've done to you. You might not like being called out on it... but calling you out isn't a "personal attack". Unlike the things you keep trying to say about me.
You're so desperate to justify yourself.
That's fine, believe what you want, you wrote the comments in the first place without reading the original post properly and just as I mentioned in there, things get twisted into a rant by people.
Seems your just another keyboard jockey with nothing better to do.
Arguments only work if you can refrain from using personal attacks to make a point. Otherwise it's just lashing out.
If you can't do it then you can't win.
You deserve it.
I've said what I think of you, I won't apologise or take them back because it is all there to see, you don't read things properly, you think you know everything but you're ignorant, there you go, enjoy!
As I've said numerous times I was asking a question in the OP, not making a business plan, you mis-read and then had a little keyboard jockey rant about it.
Go pick up your dummy and get back in the pram.
Each reply you make consists only of name calling and personal attacks.
Yet you want everyone to think I'm the one attacking you.
That's a bit like punching someone in the face while accusing them of punching you. It doesn't work that way. You can't call names and throw insults and then claim "Oh i'm the victim here". It doesn't work that way.
I'm happy to insult you until the ends of the earth, because I mean everything I've said and I'm just stating the obvious, if you're too sensitive to take it, you shouldn't have written a un-intelligent post in the first place.
I never attacked YOU. The only thing I came close to attacking was your idea.
This is why you can't quote any of my personal attacks against you yet I can quote yours.
What YOU'RE doing is a bit like going up to someone and saying "You smell, smelly!*" and then claiming "it's OK cos it's the truth". Even if it's not true. You're just claiming it's truth in order to pretend you're not doing anything wrong.
The problem is... it's a pretty easy ploy to figure out. Which is why it isn't working for you yet.
* (quote taken from "The Young Ones". good show really.)