OK. I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend. Let me be clear: I've never been on a date, I've never been asked out, I've never been kissed, I've never been felt up. It's like men are repulsed by me or something. And I'm not religious, so I don't have a church community patting me on the back and making me feel a little better. Right now I'm having all these different emotions, like being incredibly desperate and feeling like a loser, and noticing how disappointing the guys around me are, and being content with being by myself. I should also mention that I'm fat, so that might be why no guy ever looks at me. but there are lots of fat women out there with boyfriends, so that can't be why. Can it? What I hate the most is when i tell my friends about this and they all tell me, "Oh, boys are just trouble. Be glad you don't have a boyfriend, I wish I didn't have one!" And then they turn around and start talking about their relationships. It just makes me want to scream. I don't know if there is something wrong with me, if I just give off the wrong vibe, if I'm intimidating, or if it's just because i'm fat or what, but it is driving me insane. Is it strange to be this old and never have had any sort of contact with boys? Especially considering I went to a co-ed school?