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im 20 and ive never had a boyfriend
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i dont think im incredibly ugly or boring or b**chy or anything, but ive never had a boyfriend. im the only virgin out of all my friends. also, the majority of them have been in relationships for over a year. ive only ever kissed guys when i was drunk, since thats the only time they ever hit on me. im getting really depressed about this, especially since the guy i liked most recently just flat out stopped talking to me. i dont get it. there MUST be something wrong with me, what do you think it isss?
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Comments (22)
cabinet70 (4440)
2007-03-16 23:48:40
you just havent found the right one yet it will be worth the wait when it happens dont let it worry you
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sisophous (3738)
2007-03-17 12:43:08
Do you ever smile at guys? Is your appearance clean? Do you have good hygiene? A smile is a simple thing and conveys the message you are open to friendships. I've seen many cute girls that rarely smile and they often end up having trouble attracting guys. Some girls are very attractive but give off bad vibes and guys distance themselves from those girls. Nobody like rejection and if a guy feels you are disinterested, they will back off.

The best way I found to meet new people is through our friends. If you have helpful friends, some should be able to introduce you to guys they know from other friends or family. Age 20 is very young so don't worry about having sex. Just look to make friends, virginity is not an issue. good luck
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freddytheteddy (6659)
2007-03-17 13:50:08
maybe your ugly as hell and a gay?
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raydee (6505)
2007-03-17 15:47:51
Well I'm a young woman and I'm almost 20 and I no how you feel. Everyone thinks some things are supposed 2 happen at a certain age. Most common beliefs and stereotypes is that dating is 2 began at 16, wrong. Sometimes family and friends get worried or curious when you haven't brought anyone home or around by a certain age.

Don't stress yourself and stop depressing about it immediately. I no you may be tired of being alone but stop trying 2 force something that will happen naturally. Your time will come and so will the right person for you. Cheer up it's very normal. Just make some good friends and enjoy being young. GOOD LUCK
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sisophous (3738)
2007-03-17 16:02:05
@: raydee
Excellent advice raydee! I agree completely with each point you make. You are wise far beyond your age.
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raydee (6505)
2007-03-17 19:59:44
@: sisophous
Thank You. It means a lot coming from you. I hope I'm as wise as you are someday. I can just relate 2 some of posts because of my own expirence's.
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ultramel (6409)
2007-03-19 04:23:05
good advise guys, u've helped me as well
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Nodo_TheRanter (5564)
2007-03-19 15:08:35
Are you a fatty? Some guys like to go hogging when drunk. Good luck with that.
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ummmok (6662)
2007-03-19 17:55:22
omg please. i am not fat at all.... and guys have liked me before i just have been too shy to do anything unless i was drunk.
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Turdburger (6729)
2007-03-23 02:49:57
@: sisophous
r u and sisophous the same people
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Bobert (4857)
2007-03-25 18:10:29
You should write a book; "The Irony of a Wigger"
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Omofi (7083)
2007-04-01 00:10:24
@: Bobert
yea am 18 and never really dated... guys ask me out but i feel non of them r hot enough for me and am so not LESbian cause like i want dick lollol ... i guess we hav to find the right guy
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kristina_696969 (6736)
2007-04-01 07:39:21
Could be a lot of things! The way u carry yourself, the clothes you wear, youractions! It is hard to say on here! Contact me on my yahoo...IM
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doubleDtittys (5761)
2007-04-02 09:22:19
i like to eat pussy and suck dick
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spock_112 (8131)
2007-05-02 15:22:43
CLEAN UR VAGINA FFS
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maligium (7265)
2007-05-05 10:54:27
maybe you dont realise how beautiful you really are,guys only have the guts to kiss you when they see you are wasted, and the guy talking to you can only muster up so much courage.
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D.e.s.t.i.n.y (8464)
2007-05-21 13:44:39
girl dont rush it..go out,party with friends..have a good time..you'll find that special someone soon or later,,find someone you like, and if your shy to ask him out to a movie or a walk bring couple of your friends with you and ask one of his buddies you know to bring him along,so you'll get to know him even if your not with him alone
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Bibinono (9201)
2007-07-11 04:34:57
Oh dear! Do not listen to you "friends". Their relationships are not serious. You'll find your man and everything will be OK.
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fb121 (9499)
2007-07-21 13:58:56
in that case u most be ugly
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lovesyoumore (9554)
2007-07-24 12:19:14
you said one thing that that a lot of people have that is hard to overcome being shy it is a condition that makes it hard to talk to others you are attracted to id would suggest concetrating on just finding a guy you can be friends with it will make it easier to talk the opposite sex and break you out of your shyness besides most guys your age only want sex and i think you are looking for love not a one night stand some people need to be in love
to give themselves to somebody its part of who we all are we are all different just have fun he will find you :)
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charliebrown (3883)
2007-09-28 20:54:23
My philosphy on this is just to be confident in yourself and trust that you will eventually meet a partner. Does it matter that you've never had a boyfriend? I don't think so.

Think back to all the guys you wished would ask you out in the past... would any of them have actually made good boyfriends?

Probably not. So don't get depressed about it.
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wwefanfuckinashley (11020)
2007-10-09 23:49:11
Make that guy fuuck you and be done wit it
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