I am 22 now and I am as single as can be. I never had a girlfriend or even a kiss. You might say that at that I'm not ancient and at that age its not to strange to be inexperienced, but to me it feels like I'm waiting for hundreds of years for that special person to enter my life!
Being single I feel like every day is a waste of time and life has no purpose.
I don't ever go out to bars, clubs etc because I hate it.
I am to shy to just go and talk to a stranger, so the only girls I ever talked to were pretty much all classmates.
I fell in love once, with my best friend, although she was in a relationship since long before I met her. I ended up depressed and without any friends left.
At the university there is one girl that I think is cute. But a future where I would even talk to her had to involve a miracle! She is always sitting with her friends and can never be found alone.
And even if I ever found her alone and drumed up the courage to speak to her I have no idea what I should say.
Being single I feel like every day is a waste of time and life has no purpose.
I don't ever go out to bars, clubs etc because I hate it.
I am to shy to just go and talk to a stranger, so the only girls I ever talked to were pretty much all classmates.
I fell in love once, with my best friend, although she was in a relationship since long before I met her. I ended up depressed and without any friends left.
At the university there is one girl that I think is cute. But a future where I would even talk to her had to involve a miracle! She is always sitting with her friends and can never be found alone.
And even if I ever found her alone and drumed up the courage to speak to her I have no idea what I should say.
The thing of it is, you really just have to bite the bullet and go for it; meaning, if you do see her, even if she is with friends or alone, go out there and talk. I know it sounds like a nightmare, but that's kinda the only way it would work. Like 04zx6r said, it'll build your confidence up and it displays confidence to her that you're going up to her and talking.
Think of things to say beforehand that will make you comfortable and get things going. I know, the first step will be hard, but it'll only get better.
I am trying now, and am making progress. Everyone's not the same and people like us have a bit of a harder time trying to get things going. But once you take that first step, you'll find it easier to do to other girls you like.
Hope that helped my friend.
And damn im crap at translating;d this sounded muxh beter in my head/own language
I will try to just talk to her sometime soon.
Don't worry, I'll be myself, never been anybody else. I'll just try to be a little more confident than I usually am or else she could as well talk to a stuttering tomato.