So I am about to have my 30th birthday soon and I have yet to have sex with a guy. My friends and family pick at me saying to just get laid but I just can't seem to pull myself to do it. In the past I have messed around with guys I have gone out with but it's not been much more than making out and maybe some touchy feely stuff. Once or twice I have given head but both men told me to stop in the middle of it. I don't know what to do. Is this normal!