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My name is Matt and I knew a girl named Bobbie since the seventh grade (11 grade now). Ever since I first laid eyes on her i have been madly in love. When i found out the news she was moving away it crushed me. She hasn't moved yet and she still has no idea how much i love her. My problem is i am too f**king afraid to tell her because i dont want to lose this dumb excuse of a "school" friendship we have. Even though that sucks it it still a form of contact with her. I know in my heart we can never be because i am a 6'4" white guy and she is a really short Hawaiian girl and we barely ever talk or see eachother. Why? Because i am a dumb friggin idiot! I hope this message finds her somehow, some way. My message is this.....Bobbie, I am so sorry this couldn't be sooner but i love you with every ounce of me and the fact i will never see you again will haunt my heart for eternity. Does anybody have any advice or a similar situation? This whole summer could be the worst days of my life. I DON'T WANT A "IT COULD'VE BEEN" STORY IN MY LIFE!! WHY BOBBIE? WHY CANT I TELL YOU HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU? WHY? WHY? WHY!!!!!!!!
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why havent you told me this earlier???
our love will last forever
Be a man and tell her right now! Call her, meet with her and tell her!
She's moving but the two of you can always keep in touch!, thanks to the telephone and internet.
youve got to be careful here not to put pressure on her. If you do, she will want you less for it.
Make moves on her yes, but not like "im in looooove, lets commit forever RIGHT NOW!" type of moves.
Thats a horrible turnoff for women.
Start talking to her as if you know her quite well, just talk about every day things.
Then maybe move the conversation on to her. Everybody loves talking about themselves.
Be a gentleman, let her enjoy how smart, confident and unnedy of her you really are.
Somewhat dissful funny remarks are a huuuge plus.
You have got to be a challenger for her.
Make her friends/family feel good about being with you. What others say about you to her matters.
That can be achieved by:
-greeting people and shaking their hand when you first meet them.
-being tall and white. (-:
-talking to those people about what THEY find interesting.
You need to get rid of your fear of loosing, understanding that peace of mind comes from within and not from some woman downtown.
Do that and your chances for that woman downtown will get a lot better.
Its ironic, i know.
P.S if you try to make me your prison bitch mathos or mtros or whatever the fuck your name is i will spin around and try to rape you. You will then say "what the hell i am raping you!" and i'd say "No, i am going to rape you!" and it will get so confusing and unworthwhile you will just have to give up.
omg thats soo sweet. you need to tell her, before you regret not saying anything. just tell her what you said there. im a girl and believe me any girl would be so happy to hear what you just said
You got class, baby!!!
"i love you with every ounce of me and the fact i will never see you again will haunt my heart for eternity."
Thats just scary for most girls. It would be different if you really knew her well and you trusted each other.
I would try and get myself in the same circle of friends as her. Then, target one of her closest friends and talk to her about Bobbie. Tell the friend that you think shes hot but also that you think she seems like such a fun person. After that, your work is done. The friend will report back to Bobbie, the ice is broken, Job done.
Oh, one thing though, its really important that you get the friend to like you!!!!
i know this guys pain as i never rly asked anyone... but then again i just look at it logical and can conclude that theres a dozen better guys out there for tha girl i get a crush on...
then again im not rly plannin on gettin a chick since i am absolutely not confident about myself ever gettin one, so im kinda preparing for goin into the army which i always wanted make a kill get a few peeps to confirm my existence by sayin good job or way to go or somethin like that, and then die of a bullit and explore wat lies beyond life ^^
when you're toe to toe her nose will be near it, and when you're nose to nose he toes will be near it. Too bad she isn't 6'4" and you aren't a Hawaiian, it would make the comment a lot more meaningful. Your friend. Don Ho.
try to look at it like that, you can ask her and the 2 outcomes are you lose nothing, or she says yes.