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I'm a guy, and I hate sex
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Sigh, yes, I do. I hate it.
Why?
I find the sight of female genetalia unshaved gross, for starters. I am no gay, either...I should remind you before I go at this.
I have no been able to have sex because I never felt comfortable with it. Plus, I hate women. My whole life has been a wasted effort. Soem girls have been good, yes, but, by the time I meet them, I am already too damaged and hurt to actually step forward with them.
I can not get myself to do it. I don't party, I don't go to bars, I don't generally flirt around. I am 22 years old, mind you.
I hate sex. I see it as a pointless act. I don't see what is so good about it. I don't see what holes it fill's *pun nonintended*, or what use it is for other than for the sake of fun...fun I cannot find.
I am not sure I will ever find a way to enjoy sex. I have already decided I am gonna die a virgin, and somehow, I am okay with that, knowing I did not loose it or give it away to someone who did not deserve it.
I want to to be special...I do0n't want to bhe like the rest of my generation. The price I pay for being different.
Do you think it's normal?
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buriedalive (16071)
2009-03-10 15:04:23
Well, maybe you're just asexual and don't have those sorts of urges. If you want to be celibate, be celibate, it's not a bad thing, it's your body and you should do what you want with it. Just make sure you're doing it for the right reasons; if you're considering because you feel bitter that sex hasn't worked out for you so far, then vowing celibacy for the rest of your life is probably just going to make you more unhappy. I'm not saying that is the case, I don't know you so I wouldn't be able to tell, but just try to keep an open mind in case you find someone you are interested in that way.
I think it's pretty normal btw :)
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insertcreativeusername (22284)
2009-04-23 20:21:06
dude, I think you're awesome. just for the record, I'm female and hate sex. not only is a lot of that s**t diseased, but like you said it does no good and I think it's disgusting. by the way, let me break it to every man that's reading this. women do not have orgasms by intercourse. if they say they do they're lying or acting. women, go ahead, disagree and try to make men feel better. be as out of control about it as you like. rock on.
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tintedcouture (22337)
2009-05-19 18:23:08
Sex is overrated. At least you aren't controlled by your penis. You might be able to think straight and be nice to women!
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ledzeppelin91 (35415)
2010-01-24 06:59:39
i'm a guy and i hate sex as well .. and i'm not gay too

i think it's the shortest way to destroy an essential virtue ... innocence

i think it's like hunger .. only a need that can be filled one time only ..

and like food .. you eat more food .. you become fatter .. you have more sex .. you become an animal ...

there are alot of things more important than sex .. in fact everything is !!

some people say that love expresses it self with sex .. that sex is the the most true expression of love .. well i say .. bullshit!!

love ain't about that at all. love is about caring for other people, listening to them, being there for them in hard times, encouraging them, supporting them, making them believe that you can sell the world just to make them happy ... that's love ..

well if you wanna say i'm soft, idon't care, but that's the way it is!!
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rememberyourlimits (23862)
2010-03-02 08:19:08
I'm 21 and while I don't "hate" sex, I just don't care about it. I've never wanted sex, I'm straight, and otherwise a rather typical guy, I love sports, drinking, but I just never liked sex. I'm not repulsed by it, just neutral. There are so many other things I'd rather do with my time. I don't really date, because I don't really feel that urge to. I have a good social life, allot of friends, and I like my classes, and all that. I look at it this way, if your an atheist, religion just isn't part of your life, if you don't want sex, than sex just isn't part of your life.
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