I have a confession to make: I think men are douchebags. And yes, I am a male myself.
Long story short, they just strike me as untrustworthy. Not to mention simply obnoxious. I am no feminist, but I must say that any form of misogyny pisses me off as well. Perhaps things were different in the past, but I swear that it seems like most men these days are either rapists or kiddie diddlers or something along those lines. They just creep me out. Pure and simple.
Another thing is that I absolutely cannot comprehend what women see in men; not really regarding physical attraction (granted, I can't understand that either), but emotional.
Personally I feel neither strongly masculine nor feminine; perhaps something else entirely. I am not gay or effeminate; in fact I am very defiant and angry, which I suppose would be considered masculine traits. Regardless, I don't really speak to people in real life, but I think that if I did I would speak to females exclusively or almost exclusively. I'm well aware that females are far from perfect, but that's simply not the point.
Anyway, is it normal that I generally dislike males and somewhat dislike being a male myself?
Long story short, they just strike me as untrustworthy. Not to mention simply obnoxious. I am no feminist, but I must say that any form of misogyny pisses me off as well. Perhaps things were different in the past, but I swear that it seems like most men these days are either rapists or kiddie diddlers or something along those lines. They just creep me out. Pure and simple.
Another thing is that I absolutely cannot comprehend what women see in men; not really regarding physical attraction (granted, I can't understand that either), but emotional.
Personally I feel neither strongly masculine nor feminine; perhaps something else entirely. I am not gay or effeminate; in fact I am very defiant and angry, which I suppose would be considered masculine traits. Regardless, I don't really speak to people in real life, but I think that if I did I would speak to females exclusively or almost exclusively. I'm well aware that females are far from perfect, but that's simply not the point.
Anyway, is it normal that I generally dislike males and somewhat dislike being a male myself?
I enjoy being around men, for many reasons. Do understand that men here in the US are generally respectful of women and the ones that aren't are matched by a population of equally undignified women. It works both ways.
Statistically, you are correct, rapists and child molesters are more often male than female, however, 3/5 of females report being sexually assaulted in some manner in their lifetimes but 3/5 of men are not sexually abusive - what can be gathered by that statistical read is not that most men are abusers but that most abusers are repeat offenders. Hence, they're a minority among men in the states if anything.
At least be open to the prospect of friendship with men. Both genders have much to offer and you'll find out that gender and quality of character are often unrelated as you go out into the world.
But if you ask me, 2/5 is far too many. Regardless, I could have sworn that it seems like they're the majority. Maybe I just let all the paranoia get to me, I don't know.
MOST CMs are male; although contrary to popular belief, not all of them. Regarding the issue of female CMs, it's a lot like the issue of Black-on-White crime - the policy is to simply sweep it under the rug.
As for forcible rape, I think it's fair to say that at least 99% of that is perpetrated by males.
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Except for your vagina.
Seriously, it makes you sound like such a feminist suck up. People like you are always slimey sleazebags who try to suck up to women to get in their good books.
Your ulterior motive is to get women to like you when you say this stuff.
And come on, get real - am I right or am I wrong?
Just like a "Misanthrope" being part of an internet community, that's the stupidest thing i've ever heard.
So come on, get real, your full of shit.
Yes, I've always found that weird too.
Asshole.
So do I.
Well perhaps men don't want to be over emotional? Maybe they want to be more logical, and find being overemotional unneeded?
So you're basing males on people you have not even met?
To be honest, you sound like a feminist (mangina).
Furthermore, I said child molesters; not pedophiles (they're actually two entirely different things), and I said "OR;" not "and."
To you, you believe "most men" do this, because it "seems like" to you the majority do these things. I didn't think I needed to explain that since "it seems" this way to you that you most likely believe it's true.
Yes, I was wrong, two completely different, you got what I was meaning though.
You corrected me, yet still are to reply to the things that was obviously meant.
Secondly, you really do generalise. You once based the majority of your argument regarding male's contribution to society on the role of inventors. Me stating this isn't an invitation for you to defend that argument, I'm not interested. I'm just giving you an example of how you do generalise.
Anyway, I lost all hope of having a decent argument with you when you said that 1/10 of all males are/were inventors. I don't know if you realise this, but that's fucking ridiculous.
How is saying something like "Women repeat the same thing over and over" at all the same thing as saying most of them murder children?
Look, I'm sorry if I offended you, but I honestly still think that what I said was at least somewhat warranted -- for starters, just take a look around this site.
I have to dissagree with you still. The internet is a place where anyone can pretend to be anything. The majority of pedophile or child molestation imputs can very much be trolls. I'm not going to say all of them are, because I do know such men do exist.
Brother, I hope to GOD you're right!!!
Seems like = still offensive.
Child molesters = still offensive.
Your argument holds no merit and his comprehension is better than your point.
Look, "seems like" really is the operative term here, and no, I don't really feel as if it was out of line; just look at the facts.
"Another thing is that I absolutely cannot comprehend what women see in men; not really regarding physical attraction (granted, I can't understand that either), but emotional."
and that's y i think i am lesbian .. i am very kind in real life i am kind wherever :P and guys like me but i don't, i like females.i didn't come out yet, i like to messing around with guys but it is just messing i am more emotional with girls. and this chapter of ur story was my biggest problem in my teen i needed love while all girls like boys for nothing! and i don't feel in love with them ..
i love females, i like the male's penis but i can't be in love with a penis! ^^ i need to feel in love with him.. i feel in love with females not with males to be onset i would like to have sex with females not for "sex" but for love ! i need that part in sex that is not physical that i didn't feel with a guy because i am not really emotionally attract to him.. this is the first time i meet someone feel like me in this thing :)))
i read ur story Mr toilet ;) I'm not making fun of u , u know we met in chat today ;) ...I love to meet people who feel like me..
but u didn't tell me how old u r :PP?
Don't get me wrong - I despise everyone and I'm of the opinion that the only good human is a dead one, but I simply do not hate them all equally. Just why is it that misogyny is apparently more common than misandry? Personally, I don't get it.
Then why don't you kill yourself?
If you see the entirety of the male gender as douchebags, it's because you yourself possess that quality.
(On an entirely different note, I don't really see any point in writing anonymously anymore....so here I am.)
That doesn't mean I hate EVERY girl in existence, as most my friends are female - just generally I hate the females of this modern era.
But hey, you have your reasons and that seems pretty aright to me. Just don't let us girls off the hook either - there are as many obnoxious males as there are female, ahaha.
Please shut the hell up already.
Btw, you've stated you're of the opinion the only good human is a dead one. Well, then there are only three scenario's:
1. You don't want to be a good person (in which case, fuck you very much).
2. Kill yourself.
3. Admit your "misanthrophy" is B.S. and become a normal human being (which I suggest you do).
What's it going to be?
No u! A nonsensical reply gleans a nonsensical retort.
What did you expect me to say to this? =\
But here I'll give a chance to redeem yourself. What is idiocy?
Yes. There is a negative male stereotype. Yes, it's perpetuated by the media. But instead of people looking at that and saying "Hey, I'm a man. I'm not like that. The media isn't representing men correctly. I demand it changes its definition of men!" they say "I'm a man that doesn't fit that stereotype. But instead of fighting that stereotype I will accept that stereotype of men and separate myself from my gender."
also...
Yes. There is a negative female stereotype. Yes, it's perpetuated by the media. But instead of people looking at that and saying "Hey, I'm a woman. I'm not like that. The media isn't representing women correctly. I demand it changes its definition of women!" they say "I'm a woman that doesn't fit that stereotype. But instead of fighting that stereotype I will accept that stereotype of women and separate myself from my gender."
we never ought to be same.. indeed we all are too different!! you might be sincere and pure but that doesnt mean every one else is.. just focus on your own and try to make it better.. people will never judge you on wrong thing... whatever you will do will make you good.. so go on.. and forget all the others.....
Oh well do as you like with this comment delete it or whatever.
Are you a virgin? You will make a fine sacrifice!
Seems to me you know your place.