For years, when I masturbated, I would fantasize about anal sex, it got me so hot. Well, once I got in a long-term relationship (we've been together 7 years now), I decided that it was time to test it out.
Turns out I love it ! I mean it will never replace "regular sex," but I enjoy it. And not just anal sex, anal play as well. If we go at it doggy style, I am begging him to use a finger in my ass at the same time. In fact, when I am home alone, and horny, 9 times out of time that I masturbate, I will use a vibrator anally while I do it - takes me about 10 seconds to orgasm (literally - no joke).
A caveat, though - I have to be turned on to really get into it. We tried it once just straight anal (no vaginal sex first), and it was kind of unenjoyable (and a little painful, LOL).
Obviously, this isn't a subject I'm comfortable discussing with my girlfriends. So I just want to know how common this is ? I guess I just assume that anal sex is something men fantasize about, not really women.
Turns out I love it ! I mean it will never replace "regular sex," but I enjoy it. And not just anal sex, anal play as well. If we go at it doggy style, I am begging him to use a finger in my ass at the same time. In fact, when I am home alone, and horny, 9 times out of time that I masturbate, I will use a vibrator anally while I do it - takes me about 10 seconds to orgasm (literally - no joke).
A caveat, though - I have to be turned on to really get into it. We tried it once just straight anal (no vaginal sex first), and it was kind of unenjoyable (and a little painful, LOL).
Obviously, this isn't a subject I'm comfortable discussing with my girlfriends. So I just want to know how common this is ? I guess I just assume that anal sex is something men fantasize about, not really women.
If you like anal you'll love a dp. Really a natural next step. My wife loves them because they absolutely cause her to lose control. She becomes an absolute whore.
It really helps her anyway using Anal Eaze (a product sold in sex shops that numbs the area enough not to feel too much pain). She really doesn't enjoy it for too long without the anal eaze and she DEFINITELY doesn't enjoy it unless she's really turned on otherwise she is in pain like you. She also uses her dildo on me and it's awesome and she loves doing it and wants to use a strap-on with me which I'm apprehensive about but I am willing to give it a go. If you have any questions e-mail me at dmitch77 on yahoo.
People enjoy various things when it comes to sex and anal is a pretty common act.
I like that, that guy must have enjoyed u. I wish I was the one. I have never tried anal but I need 2 try it. I am supposed to use any lubricant?.
I'm sick of worrying that she may think I'm a perv I not but lifes to short not to never know or tried them out.
However, I've only had anal sex - fully inserted and with me reaching orgasm - once and that was with one of my sister's friends, (we were both in our mid-twenties) and that whole day is a topic for another post!
Anyohow, every other time one of my girlfriends (and one ex-wife) over the years has told me in the heat of passion to fuck them in the ass, I have lubed up, gotten less than an inch in them and they have all said that it hurt too much and to take it out. So every once in a while, I get begged/told to fuck them in the ass, only to not be allowed to actually do so. THAT sucks.
My current wife likes me to stick my tongue in her ass or up to half of any one of my fingers; but actually having anal sex is completely out of the question for her. So...the years roll by and I just keep tongue-fucking and finger-fucking her in the ass until she doesn't ask for just tongue penetration, but (hopefully) asks me to slide my cock in her ass. I think she'd enjoy it.
It's nice to hear from women who do enjoy it. I think it's normal. I also think that it's normal to enjoy it in the heat of passion and not enjoy it - even dislike the thought of it - when you're not all "worked up."
Back to your question: It's normal.