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Im a woman sleeping with a married woman
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I am sleeping with my co-workers wife. A few weeks ago he told me to take her out and I did...by the middle of the night she was all over me...and by the end of the night we were sleeping together and it hasnt stopped. Im pretty sure that he knows Im sleeping with his wife, given that he knows I am a lesbian and shes always calling me and coming to stay the night. We say were friends but he has to know we are screwing around. Not too long ago we had a 3-some (I did not sleep with him) and nothing changed we are still all great friends, he and i are best friends at work and yet he knows his wife is coming home to me. This has to be one of the strangest experiences I have ever had. I have explained to her that I will not be with her if she left her hubby and she says that she has no intentions on doing that to him, she also knows that she is fulfilling a need right now and that when I am ready to start dating again this whole sex thing will not happen anymore. I am not "in love" with her or anything crazy like that and dont have any intentions on developing feelings for her in that way. I am just concerned that when I find another woman and she doesnt have this secret lover on the side, what will she do. Any advice?
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punkkiddo (17205)
2008-10-26 13:34:22
pls pics pics
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brad015 (17444)
2008-11-05 00:26:57
well if you feel comfortable about it then yes i guess it is. advice i don't know. but for the people who asks for pics shut the hell up and get a life.
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122333 (18447)
2008-12-12 07:07:03
RUN.......... she might not b happy that u r movin on stop now b 4 u do fall in love it happined 2 me could not stop it now its the worse part wantin some1 u cant have
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simpleMom (18423)
2008-12-12 21:20:08
wow that crazy!
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cooze (18425)
2008-12-14 15:31:17
i think a guy doesnt see a girl on girl as a threat and it probably turns him on and asks for details the next morning every day but good luck having a 3-some with both of em
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Pixxie (18790)
2008-12-24 08:34:09
That is a interesting situation. A hot situation at that though. I guess if your all confortable with it then stick to it. There's nothing really wrong with it. As for if you find a new woman well I'm guessing you'll just move on with her. I'm sure your girl friend won't rip your head off for it, and who knows you may get a foursum some time.
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duckfart77 (18930)
2008-12-29 18:42:50
Honestly, he sounds like a very stupid man who wants to brag to his buddies that his wife has a g/f (low-intelligent, inexperienced men tend to find this sort of thing appealing). In my personal opinion with the way my wife and I do things (she is bisexual and was never with a girl sexually before marrying me). I told my wife that if she wanted to have sex with girls then I get to join in too, no way around it and it keeps things fair (she agreed and liked the idea of it anyway). The way that we view things in our marriage is that couples who play together stay together, we're both having fun, different and new experiences but neither of us have to worry about jealousy because we are BOTH with each other ALL the time and do EVERYTHING together. We are swingers (it's easier because when you do 3-somes it tends to bring on a LOT of drama, sex with married couples, it keeps things simple and still fun). I don't really have any advice for you, but I wouldn't have put myself in that position in the first place. NEVER mess with a married person (unless it's a mutual agreement and nobody gets hurt).
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GropeJuice (20121)
2009-02-10 16:47:26
It seems to me that he could have assumed his wife was interested in woman, seeing as he asked you to take her out, he probably assumed that you would be good for her.
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lina222444 (20811)
2009-03-07 16:11:19
oh I meant your lovers husband.
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expoguy (20846)
2009-03-08 19:20:08
I think you need to speak to her, ask her if he knows what you two get up to, find out if the idea of her with another woman turns him onand if he would like to watch you two in action.
At least you'll know if she's just enjoying herself and he's getting off on it or if you are both deceaving him, if he knows then theres no harm if not you might destroy a good friendship with him.
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shamwow (21110)
2009-03-20 04:02:26
The real question, however, is: Are you both hot?
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activecatcow (21090)
2009-03-24 09:35:00
You need to stop. Tell your co-worker to get a divorce from her husband. You're sick.
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oskilover18 (22167)
2009-04-21 23:17:05
In all probability this is going to erupt in flames aka problem in work place when your co-worker finally flips or her continuing to pursue you when you aren't interested anymore. But I've also never been in this situation so I can't really say with much certainty.
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oskilover18 (22167)
2009-04-21 23:21:54
Oh and ... I am so curious about having sex with a woman. If things don't work out with my current boyfriend, I would probably want to seek out a girl to try it with. I wouldn't call myself bi more like 95%% straight. Once I was utterly infatuated with this women who was a friend of mine in college. Unfortunately I don't think she felt the same, though I'm pretty sure she knew. hmm ... just babbling.
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tintedcouture (22337)
2009-05-16 22:05:07
he probably can't get it up
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-05-31 07:31:07
@: expoguy
I agree. She needs to level with you about where her husband is at. You should know, not just be guessing at, whether you are a party to deceit. This is different enough - but the key is that the consenting adults actually are consenting.
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reddawn17 (27137)
2009-08-15 00:51:42
Maybe her husband wanted her to go out and find a girl that they could have a 3-some with (like a hot co-worker) and he doesn't care if she sleeps with the woman still because he doesn't find it threatening. He might think "I still get to f*** my wife and have the occasional chance at a 3-some" sounds like a good deal
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sorebottom (27814)
2009-08-30 05:40:12
personally speaking as a woman you are probably going lesbian which is okay at some point, however what needs to be done for the time being is you should be turnd over her knee face down bare bottomed and soundley spanked for possibly ruining a good marriage
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smileystevie (31143)
2009-11-11 21:51:11
if i were u i would just stay a swinger dont get knee deep if the chicks married
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ReaperAJ (36954)
2010-03-01 12:11:33
@: sorebottom
I believe she did say she's a lesbian!!! Not going lesbian...
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Budthewise (29424)
2010-03-02 21:52:31
Good for you. A girl sleeping with a girl isn't really doing much wrong and I am sure her husband wouldn't mind much.
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shouldiBmad (37970)
2010-03-05 02:53:38
This is strange not gonna lie. This isnt your normal typical situation haha...but if everyone is happy...well then cool. Hope it all works out in the end.
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jc82592 (38359)
2010-03-09 07:55:32
Thats Kinky ;)
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naa182sb (38361)
2010-03-09 08:09:33
Nice. Pics?
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