I noticed theres a lot of gay people these days. And i dont know why but i feel really awkward around gays. Not just the men but woman too. They say if you feel uncomfortable around gay people it means your hiding something. Come on!?.
I just dont like watching them hold hands and kiss i mean, imagine a guy giving another guy tongue. No ways. And i dont know why im like this. Im straight and i dont know how a man can want another man. Same for girls liking girls. My girlfriend doesnt mind, she has gay friends but i just cant stand it.
Am i over reacting?
live and let live,judging is for god only to do
Since what you feel towards homosexuals isn't genetic or natural, but a product of socialization, you can choose to overcome your homophobia (though I don't doubt that it takes time). This way you wouldn't have to feel uncomfortable anymore by irrational feelings. :) But in all honesty someone's sexuality is not anyone's business but their own and their partner(s)'s if they have one. Either way, good luck! I hope you can make peace with yourself. :)
And I'm not gonna lie, I even find it odd sometimes when I see guys or girls of the same sex kissing.
Especially when I witness it with friends around, it's just something that I think needs to be done in private (for me personally) just cause I know that it isn't the norm is society.
It doesn't sound like you hate gay people or anything, you're just uncomfortable with it.
I think it's normal for you to feel that way.
I don't know the story of your life or how it influences your feelings of gay culture; but in my opinion gay pride in the form of colour, flamboyancy, and parades sets back homosexual rights and only slows down any possible progress
But the homophobia you describe, which is really just the role of a woman being replaced by another man in an intimate relationship exists, and will only continue to progress as a global society shrugs off the chains of religion that has limited the rights of man since its existence
-Brent-