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I'm in love with my step sister.
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Until my dad married my step mom it was just the two of us. I didn't have any siblings until they got married when I got a step sister. I was seven at the time and she was 8. At first it was a little strange simply because I had never had a sibling before but soon we were like best friends. We did everything together. We liked almost all of the same things. When I was about nine we played "I'll show you mine if you show me yours". I don't remember how it came up but we both were very curious about the opposite sex. When our parents were gone we both took our clothes off and then just stood there looking at one another then put our clothes back on and promised to never mention it ever again and to forget about it. We continued to be like best friends and nothing like that happened until we were both about 12. It was at the time that I really started to notice girls. We were at home alone after school and she was in some short cloth shorts and a tank when I realized how hot my step sister was. She started to give me erections and I would try and hide them but one day she caught me with one. She asked what was going on and I tried to answer but she knew what it was before even asking. She asked to see it and at first I was nervous but eventually pulled it out for her to see. She asked me if her body made it happen and I said yes and she began to take her shirt off for me to see her breasts. For the next several months whenever our parents were gone we would look and touch each other. This soon died out with time. I began to get very attached to her and began to fall in love with my step sister. Over the next few years it was agony for me because I knew I loved her more than a sister but was also aware that it was out of the norm. I kept my love hidden until she started dating a guy in high school. I was jealous of him and felt like she was hurting and cheating on me. I hadn't dated anyone because I was in love with her. I couldn't take it. I talked to her one night and told her how I felt expecting to be met with conflict but said she felt the same way. She told me that the boys she had dated that it never felt right with them. We started "dating" you could say, when no one was around we would hold hands and kiss and everything teens dating do. Then we started sneaking into each others rooms at night after everyone fell asleep to lay with each other and then it happened, we had sex. We were both each others first. Every night possible I would go to her room or she would come to mine and we would have sex. We continued this throughout high school until we both went to different colleges and now I do not know what to do. I don't know where our relationship stands and I don't know if any of this should continue. Is it normal to fall in love with your step sister like I have?
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Marry her. If you're in love, tell her. A piece of paper and an "I do" from your parents can't inhibit you from your heart. Love is something to be chased, my friend.
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Bah, there's not any real 'incest' about it. Being siblings is not a matter of custom but of genetics. Propose to her and if she still feels the same for you, go ahead and live happily ever after. If she has changed, well, it's about as with any other girl. If she is off, she is off and you just have to lump it and move on and keep a good memory of what you shared.
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talk to her see where she stands if she still dont have a boyfriend then go for it you all are not blood related so it is or
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Think of it this way.

She is like any other girl out there... but her dad just happened to marry ur mom.
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Shit like this is bound to happen every now and then. And dude you never really thought of her as a sister anyway, you said it yourself you guys were/are best friends, your not related , and she feels the same way dude all signs say go for it. At the end of the day you gotta ask yourself how much do you love you "best friend". hope this helps if it doesnt...
shit happens
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Sounds hot you lucky dog...I always hated my sisters
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this is rather luck, it is hard finding the perfect girl but your was brought to you. Luck? Fate?

Regardless your not technicaly related. it is no different than other girls.

I believe that because your father married a woman must not prevent a possible good life.

you must not be oppressed. had you met any other way would you find her and make her yours

I,ve had trouble finding "the right one", and it angers me to see how some don't take such opportunities.

if it truly is love go for it I've had truble until recently with my new gf.
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I'd say to be sure you date at least 12 girls before you propose to this one. This way you sample what's available, and can be sure of your decision. Otherwise you may look back 15 years from now, doing the job and 3 kids at home, wishing that maybe you'd sampled some of the other fish in the sea.

I don't doubt the intensity of your feelings, but you had such an 'unusual' beginning with this one that you're going to want to feel like you're on solid ground when the proverbial stuff hits the fan. There will be no going back, and extracting yourself from such a relationship later could be really messy given your parents' relationship.
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Hmm.. that's vert interesting becase you see, I almost have the same problem. I woukdn't say I'm in love with my step sister but I do find her extremely attractive. The desires of the body and the desires of the mind are two completly dirferent things.

I think your letting your body overwhelm your mind with lust and the sexual tension your building up because of your sisters absence is probably going to have negative effects. I might suggest letting her go and finding someone else. Then again if you really feel that way and everyrhing I've said is uselss to you, do what your heart tells you.
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Fuck that's hot
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way to go!
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i dont agree with fuck ups who fuck their sister .... but step sisters arent dna relatives sooo your normal....i think xc
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Really thoughtful (above). Its unusual that no incest taboo developed though you have been sibs so long - & even though you are not genetically related. But that is also the case in, say, adoption.

So this is a rather incestuous relationship. She is your relative by marriage. And I don't think you can play that down entirely.

There are I suspect issues around trust, boundaries & shame. None of this has been that normal - especially the secrecy, & the hidden, sneaky, closed relationship. And I doubt it ever will.

Sorry, but thinking that, and how it would be viewed, could be the foundation of a lasting union is, to me, a stretch. Best to move on and let this go. Thats my opinion. Date some other girls for goodness sake.

It may be an idea to then talk with your sister and help her with her feelings if need be & put your relationship on more normal terms.
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If you love her and she feels the same, I think its fine for you to try to be together. Maybe transfer to her school?

I bet your parents already know something is up... maybe if you tell them they will realize the genetic aspects of their love for each other.
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I think that what you experienced is normal in the way that it COULD happen to anybody. Typically, it doesn't, obviously, but I don't think it is anything that you should feel ashamed about. However....

You have to think about the consequences here. You're not blood related, so technically it's not incest. But hypothetically, and I'm not saying you should do this, what would your mother think if you told her? Or your step sister's father? How would this affect your family, and are you willing to abandon everyone else you know to be with her? Because honestly, that's about the only way that you could ever have an accepted relationship.

You mentioned that she dated other people. Have you tried? Because if there is any way that you can get past this and fall in love with another woman, I would advise you to try to move on as best you can. I feel for you, honestly.

If it comes down to it, and you need to move her across the country and marry the girl, then I say do it. That may be horrible advice, I honestly am not sure. Your parents will undoubtedly be freaked out by it, but parents love their kids no matter what, and maybe one day they would be able to accept it. If she's the one person that you love, and you need her to be happy, and she feels the same way, I say go for it. Reestablish yourselves somewhere else and start a new life together. No one has to know.
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my sister married my step dads nephew. they have been married for 10 years and just had another child. PROPOSE if shes the love of your life id say go for it. you should tell your parents though so their dont freak out.
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bro, shes jst ur step sister, fuck her as u always do dnt stpp! I have an elder cousin sister who is like 19. I am not in love wid her, bt i fuck her lik 2 or 3 times a day! Every week she buys a pack of condoms, she is currently succesful in hiding it frmm her boyfriend, she likes my dick much better thn her boyfriends, she liks the taste of my cum. Still tht fucking bitch takes $20 from me for every time i drill her!! whatever bt its shit fun! keep it up!
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There is nothing wrong with this at all. You aren't related to her so its fineee!!! Fuck what people think
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Dude, ur lucky, im in love with my step sister and for many reasons we could never be more the step sister and step brother, I would do anything to change that, dont let her get away
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It's normal to get close and feel love for her . But when your parents got married you two became family. Don't allow this to go any further and brake your family appart.
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Ummm, I don't know. I find that really weird, sorry.
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