Let me start off by saying that I am not sick or disturbed in any way. I am simply in love with a girl who happens to be the child of someone my father is in love with. Now we're not related yet. My father is set to wed in the fall of 2013. A long way away right? My father doesn't like the idea of marriage and my future step mother wants marriage NOW. I've been dreaming of the day that my father finally gives into his fear of commitment and leaves her. Leaving me to make my move. I know my father doesn't want to get married and it is likely that the relationship won't work out. So my patience is being tested. But I need this woman. I need her. She is close to moving out of our house and I don't think I could live without seeing her every day. I'm sick of dating girls I don't want. I'm sick of waiting. But I don't want to be the reason the relationship between my father and his woman ends. So is it normal to be in love with someone you can't have?