Im jealous of bisexual people.

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Totaly normal.

I'm not sure if that's normal or not...
But you CAN love somebody for their mind and personality. Just because you only like girls doesn't mean that you only like that they are girls. Bisexuality is just as much about physical attraction as heterosexuality is. Just because you're straight doesn't mean if you feel for someone it isn't as beautiful because you wouldn't like them if they were a guy.

Totally agree with you... Not to seem odder, but I think it is all about the Male Bravado thing...

u sound gay just 4 sayn that ^_^ no offens but maybe u r bi experiment ull be surprised what u learn

this person sayd it best here. i totally agree. i have a bi friend n i love him 4 him. im not sexually attracted 2 him tho n thas y hes just my best friend

Normal. Experiment.

Yeah, I wish I was able to be attracted to girls too, for your reasons, and that I'd have more eye candy ;P

Well I don't know if it's normal but I have the exact same thing you're talking about, including the I want to be bisexual but the f-ed thing is I don't actually want to be bisexual. I just want to be with a man, have a woman see it and get jealous. Or at least when I talk to a woman who is bisexual I think I would feel less jealous if I could chime in with my own. The one person who said it's a macho bravado thing is WRONG, but the person who said it is an insecurity thing is right. However it also not just insecurity but the feeling that you will always be missing out on a type of sensuality that seems to be worth having. I don't know what to do either. I know this is my problem, and I don't do anything stupid or rash about it, but I am sick of this like burning feeling that I get in my heart ESPECIALLY because I know it is based on stupidity. So, I don't know if you're normal, but I know where you're coming from on every level, but I have no idea what to do about it.

Well I wouldn't say your gay just for thinking that. Men who say that are just not comfortable with their sexuality and would never speak of any such thought because of their fear of social rejection.

I mean realistically you could be like her. But I think you might be saying that because... well she is a girl. And you find it appealing that she can sleep with men (like normal) and then woman as well (what straight man wouldn't like that)

But what if the tables were turned? If your bi friend happened to be a guy, would you still be jealous?

being bi is great hehe

it's not that sex doesn't matter. we like both. i could have one without the other and be fine, but i'm always gonna be attracted to both.

You absolutely are capable of loving someone for their mind. You do it all the time, in fact, its just the first thing that pops into your head is definitely 'Oh, we're best friends' and not anything sexual. Lets say you have a childhood friend, and he's been your best friend forever, you may love him and not realize it. Sexuality isn't a big role in what you're trying to accomplish. Everyone can love every sex.

And get this. You love your parents, and they're related to you. Isn't that just strange? Of course not. You just have to think of it all differently!