I'M NOT GAY, so don't say I am!

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Yes. Just because you're fixated on someone doesn't mean you now exclusively want sex with your own gender (or even with the person you're fixated on). I agree with you.

You know what people are like, though.

Calling someone gay can be used as a friendly insult. I always make jokes about how hot certain male celebrities are and my friends call me gay, but they dont actually mean I'm homosexual.

I'm not going to read your story, or call you gay for that matter, but your title comes off as extremely defensive. Just saying...

People just love throwing the term around. "That's gay, you're so gay, gay, gay, gay!" I wouldn't worry so much about it.

People just know they can get a rise out of you, if you don't bite back it won't be fun and they'll stop.
I thought you were changing your name?

i wouldnt have thought you were gay until you mentioned it

Whats the fixation about? Like why do you have it?

I know guys who are not gay but people always assume they are because of the way they carry themselves or whatever. Don't worry about what other people say. You just be YOU!

It's called bromance.

I met a friend who was a few years younger than me. I was his only friend and we would do everything together. I took a trip out of state for a couple of months and I was told by everyone that he had a complete melt down. He looked up to me as an older brother and tried to like everything that i liked. Told me that he wanted to be just like me. People started rumors that he was gay and that me and him had a gay relationship together. People are ignorant. He definitely holds his own on picking up the ladies. The deepest gut feeling says dude isnt that way and he would have told me so. People are so fascinated with people that are gay, its a little odd.

They do it to press you r buttons don't let if get to you you know your not gay and you don't have to prove yourself, so you admire somebody, there's nothing wrong about it. People are just inmature.

The word gay has too broad of a meaning now. It can be lame, homosexual, happy, come on people, we have an entire language full of other words at our disposal!

I have been called gay before because of my man crush on Ewan Mcgregor, but that's just because he is a ballar!

P.S. Your gay! haha j/k

you're not gay.

i lied.

Even if you were gay, who cares? As far as I'm concerned that's private, and nothing to do with anyone else

that is gay.

Gay no, but you do sound like a fuckhead :)

Your confused. Thats the same

Hiya,

There’s nothing wrong with admiring somebody; nothing at all.

I’ve always thought various musicians were brilliant, it’s just how I was raised, and when I met one of my favourites post-concert, I nearly fell down the venue’s steps. I was so happy. I’ve literally cried listening to this woman, because she is brilliant, and not just the once either. I’ve actually got tears in my eyes typing this comment. I still consider it one of the best nights of my life. This was months ago. If we (you and I) were to meet and you could hear me go on, you’d realise there was nothing wrong with you. Luckily lots of people seem to agree with me.


I don’t know why people think this type of thing isn't not normal. I’ve known people who have no interests at all and have nothing to talk about, and people like me but with different and stronger interests, and I know which type of person I’d rather spend time with.

Gay??....

Douchebag??...

It's fucken hard for me to tell. I need more info. eg do you listen to beiber? You're probably a gay douchebag.

Lol. These comments make me laugh. & if you were straight you wouldn't be as defensive.... But like if you feel like thats a strong subject and you dont want people thinking youre gay just be nonchalant about it... Or people are def gonna think ur gay.

Infatuation is a obsession with another. However it does not always mean you want sex with them.

I think i give off gay vibes. Because people contantly ask me the same question.. even tho i say i'm not, some people constanly argue. about it

Be honest with yourself bro... Buttsex is real nice, huh!? ;)