Yep, I'm short, fat, ugly, and tanned hispanic. I wear urban hip hop type clothes like Ecko, South Pole, or Sean John. Yet I don't really care for hispanic chicks that much. I'd do anything to be able to date a good looking thin pale goth girl.
Unfortunately it would look very strange, and why would she like me anyway? Every goth chick I see hangs out with tall pale goth guys. I would never dress all goth, but even if I wanted to, I wouldn't be able to pull it off because my height, weight, skin color, and all around looks.
I guess I'll just have to settle for marrying short chubby hispanic girls that I despise.
Unfortunately it would look very strange, and why would she like me anyway? Every goth chick I see hangs out with tall pale goth guys. I would never dress all goth, but even if I wanted to, I wouldn't be able to pull it off because my height, weight, skin color, and all around looks.
I guess I'll just have to settle for marrying short chubby hispanic girls that I despise.
Hm... Well, I'd probably go and date someone even if he wasn't goth, so I'm gonna assume some other goth girls would. ^^
and girls are not 'nicer' than guys lol. when you see pretty girls with ugly guys it's aint out of the milk of human kindness. it's cos women get turned on by chemistry at least as much as looks. those guys are usually quite arrogant and/or strong willed/self centered charismatic types.
put another way, they act like dominant males, and are treated like dominant males.
1. He has money, lots and lots of money. Enough for her not to worry again about the word the rest of her life.
2. She is a total bitch, to the extent that good looking and even normal looking guys couldnt stand to be around her. Many times this is accompanied by massive internal issues that the girl has. Leading to her being a controlling, dominating, self centered bitch, with the possibility of being a slut at some point in the past as well. All things most normal men would not want to deal with.
3. And finally, we can all be adults about this, but there is a good chance he is "well equipped" and knows how to use it as well. This could be the reason why even being so ugly a guy is still arrogant for some reason. Lets be honest, women dont gossip about there men who are averagely equipped, and the ones who dont gossip have an average or below average guy. If he is making her toes curl on a regular basis she will be much more forgiving of other things, i.e. arrogant nature, ugly face, etc.
Sure we can kid ourselves in that they just "found love" but we would be lying about the whole thing. We live in a visual society that makes snap judgements based on how someone looks and that same society goes so far as reinforcing that mentality time and time again.
When's the last time you saw an ugly news anchor man or woman?
I'm latina, yet i wear mostly dark colors like black. If the girl really likes you she wont juge you.
I have no Hispanic blood. I'm a pale white guy, but I worship at the Latina altar. To me, Latin women are like coming home. It feels totally right for me when I'm with one. I just want to merge with them, devour them, ...
I am SO attracted to white boys mmm especially the skater type but i aint guna lie the whole race thing....
im cuban so imagine a cuban girl wit a hollister white boy? uh uh all i can do is check out da white boys and wish...but damn theyre hot!
anyway dude goth chicks are evil dont look them in the eye LOL
Look around. I'm sure there's a goth girl out there for you, bro. A true goth wouldn't pull elitist sh*t. Like the person above me said, if she rejects you because you're not goth yourself, then she's not worth it (not to mention she's probably a poseur).
It upset me actually- his sudden rejection. I felt like he was only after the chace.
Another time... with one of my exs...he was from guatamala...his parents even liked me but he started dressing goth on his own and some kid came up to me at school and said "you turned him goth" :( I never wanted to or expected to...nor would I have changed this guy...if anything I admired him for thinking he was less ignorant of the cultural barrier.
Another time. I was hanging otu with one of my other friends...talking, like we did every morning. He hung out with mostly hispanic crews...minus me....and the girls got snippy and mean and judgemental because of the way I look/dressed/acted..worst of all...because of my skin color...for being a white girl.
the door swings both ways
People need to be more accepting, less defensive...and culturally accepting.
Goths tend to be pickier because of the high level of intelligence. Since Goth consists mainly of outcasts, freaks, and the wannabes they pick on when they have nothing else to do, you get a lot of entertainment in a goth group. Other groups aren't likely to interest you after you get in.
Overall, though, the majority of things a goth will list off in things they want in a lover come from respect of self and others. Speaking proper English can either be an added bonus or requirement.
If you are willing to do this, you only have one step left. Either,
A) See if the goth lifestyle is right for you. Since I don't suggest wearing tons of black over fat for anyone, consider dieting and exercise. If you can get into a Goth group, chances are they're restless enough to hang out for hours and just walking around.
or
B) Check out "Goth Fetish" and leave the poor Goths alone. Enough people who fantasize about PVC clad fetish girl slapping their asses bother real goth with their distorted views already. Trust me, I have had this happen far too many times. It's not pleasant and your chances of scoring with a decent Goth chick are non-existent. We don't do flings.
Goths tend to prefer men anyway. If your looking for a FMF threesome, you're going to want to go for a prep.