Every time I hold someone's baby I panic and think I'll move it too fast, or not support its head right and just snap its neck. I mean I would pretty much have to kill myself if that happened. I can hold the baby for a while, but only if I don't move at all. Then I have to have someone take the baby from me, instead of trying to hand him/her off incase I drop them.

I used to throw my brother in the air, on the bed, he used to dive bomb off the the bed onto the floor, the kid is just fine. He's a very sharp and intelligent kid, and he is literally been "dropped on his head" zillions of times. Everyone rough plays with him. He is the only kid I know that can run, fall flat on his face and get up laughing.