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Ima BIG FAT FLIRT...lol
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I am a VERY big flirt and usually when I go for a guy I usually get them by keeping them thinking about me with my mysteriuos flirting ways. I can make a guy fall in love with me but only if its the right guy..ie I like them very much. The only problem is Im in a long term relation. I LOVE to flirt but I would HATE to cheat. Is is okay to Love to flirt but be in a relationship?

P.s My flirting does not include me making sexual advances or me wering sl*tty cloths its all in the eyes...and my swag...lol

I also am in no way intimidated by men in the least
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Chonga (24243)
2009-09-11 01:43:47
Flirting is another form of cheating,you are not ready for a relationship!
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xbumblybee (28174)
2009-09-16 16:15:35
It's not terrible, but if you can avoid it, I would recommend you try. The only reason I say this is because I am an AWFUL flirt, and it sort of wrecked my last relationship.If you can keep it under control, go for it, but be careful... if your man starts feeling threatened or insecure about your feelings for him, you might want to re-evaluate things... how do you REALLY feel about him? Is it worth hurting him for your own pleasure? Would you prefer not to be in a relationship? Just think it through.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-09-22 14:23:53
I think big flirts can be an annoying - a form of attention & approval seeking.
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ttainted (28960)
2009-09-25 21:45:47
^ BINGO. You crave attention, need it, survive on it. You're a pre-madona, as they call it. My sister is the exact same way and it drives me crazy. She's in a long term relationship (going on five years) but she flirts with anyone who has a dick. It's going to get her hurt, or raped, or both.

I'd try and be more aware. Nothing turns people off more than that. And no one will respect you.
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4w04se (25055)
2009-09-26 15:08:20
I've always believed that a Flirt is either someone who needs attention or someone who lacks love and security in her/his life
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nothing2 (29013)
2009-09-26 21:26:20
hey maybe you lookin' fo sumptin' else. on the sly, deep in yo mind. never ignore the obvious. sometimes we don't see it is all.
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bingbong5 (30782)
2009-11-04 15:34:12
When I first read this heading I thought it said I'm a big fat fart. Ooops sorry.
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