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In love with best friend, way more complicated - 88% Normal
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ok, well- i've been in love with my best friend for two years now. the problem is, he happens to also be my ex.
after we broke apart, i didn't realize, but he had loved me even after we spilt. being as oblivious as i am, i just thought he was showing a great deal of affection because he knew i was hurt from our separation.
Now, it seems like he no longer feels that way, but I miss him so much. I need him so much. He tells me he loves me, but i know he only means it as a friend. We talk all the time, and if something's bugging me i know i could tell him, but i just can't get around to tell him this. Because If I do, i'm terrified i'll loose him, and he's just so good to me. I really want to tell him thought, but I don't know if i should or not.
He had had some feelings for a good friend of mine. He confined me about her, telling me everything he liked about her. Asking me what he should say when she's around. Thankfully, he does not have feelings any more.. But my friend still might. That good friend told me over and over again that I should just confess my feelings for him, but I don't really trust her. I don't know what to do. I don't know if it's enough to break our friendship, i just don't know. Don't tell me i don't love him, because I know i do.He protects me and cares about me even now. if you have some advice for me, i'd gladly appreciate it.
ok, well- i've been in love with my best friend for two years now. the problem is, he happens to also be my ex.
after we broke apart, i didn't realize, but he had loved me even after we spilt. being as oblivious as i am, i just thought he was showing a great deal of affection because he knew i was hurt from our separation.
Now, it seems like he no longer feels that way, but I miss him so much. I need him so much. He tells me he loves me, but i know he only means it as a friend. We talk all the time, and if something's bugging me i know i could tell him, but i just can't get around to tell him this. Because If I do, i'm terrified i'll loose him, and he's just so good to me. I really want to tell him thought, but I don't know if i should or not.
He had had some feelings for a good friend of mine. He confined me about her, telling me everything he liked about her. Asking me what he should say when she's around. Thankfully, he does not have feelings any more.. But my friend still might. That good friend told me over and over again that I should just confess my feelings for him, but I don't really trust her. I don't know what to do. I don't know if it's enough to break our friendship, i just don't know. Don't tell me i don't love him, because I know i do.He protects me and cares about me even now. if you have some advice for me, i'd gladly appreciate it.
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guys tend to get attached to freinds if they have sex ( especialy good freinds) . idk y we just do . lol
I say go for it, the worst thing that could happen is that he doesnt feel the same way.
and other time, i felt in love with my best friend. he told me he loved me and everything, and it looked like he started to look me as something more than a friend, but one day, he died, and I never told him how did i feel.
i know, its sad, and it was real.
tell him how you feel
AM not being funny ..........
(OR maybe I am :)
Give it a shot :)
i hate to say this but either tell him now of forever hold your piece