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Im 22 years old and im in love with my bestfriend whom is married. I have know her for a while not and it only within the past year that i have started to feel this way about her. Should i tell her how i feel even if i know the answer? or should i just get over it and move on?
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CrazyMoFo
Go for it.
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Let me say that I am on the other side. I'm a 28 year old female that is married. I'm in love with my best friend and have been for about 4 or 5 years. I believe he cares for me too, but I'm not sure. It kills me and it's all I seem to think about. If I just knew for sure how he felt that would help so much. So I think you should tell her, she might be feeling just like me and then at least you'll know where you stand!
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I am a 38 year old man. notsure654321, I know how you feel... I am also married, and my best friend is another woman. I am in love with her, and I don't know what to do either. I love her and care for her and sometimes I have sexual thoughts about her. I still love my wife. This is really hard for me to explain. I don't know what kind of feelings she has towards me. We tell each other that we love one another. She is a great comfort to me and I to her. I just don't want sex. It's more that we have common interests and we really understand each other and it's scary how we can read each others thoughts sometimes. I am afraid that our friendship would fall apart if I told her. If she has feelings for me, will she eventually tell me? Should I just wait and see? I know I can't both save the cake and eat the cake. I want to be married to both! Dammit, this sucks.
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cabinet69
Do you think she would like you. Get her pissed one night and try your luck. We need more bi girls
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You're a bit odd

BEAUTIFUL

Not YOU

ODD
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I never said that.ever
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Tell her husband first. You may get a better result.
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Let's me answer that from the otherside. I am the married one, much older by 23 years, and in love with a 22 year old. We both feel the same way, but we also know it wouldn't workout so we are trying to keep it as a friendship. And no, nothing sexual has ever happened. So my point is, let her make the first move, but you should get on with your life, don't wait for something that may never happen
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CrazyMoFo
WOW, Bookie wat is wrong with u ? I would have railed it seven ways from Sunday. No one is saying after u f*ck her brains out to leave ur spouse and fuck up ur life. Just have casual sex, and be done with it. 2 people (married or not) can have sex and not have to divorce their spouse, just make sure that u say that in the begining so there is no confusion.
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you know i'm sorry, but you know no good can come from this someone will get hurt and this person is not available. even if the marriage is bad, they are still married, and think about this if you two did get together, would you be able to trust this person entirely?
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CrazyMoFo
U don't need to trust them, just f*ck them.
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What a tricky situation! But i think that you should tellher how you feel about her, and see what she thinks. If you're reallygood friends, then nothing wil blow, even if she doesn't feel the same way. If you're really good friends, she'll be honest with you, and then you'll know whether it's worth it. good luck.
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Show her a dildo I am sure you will have one & see what her response is this may be all you need to do to get her into bed with you good luck
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Similar situation here. 39 and in love with my best friend who is male and 7 years my junior. We met when he was in his early twenties, and I always hoped this crush would go. After nearly a decade, we met up again and all the feelings came back - this time stronger than before. I have been married for 20 years and he has subsequently married. We know that we would be married to each other if there were not other spouses and children involved. Sometimes I am overwhelmed with the sadness of this situation.
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I can relate....check out my story....
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"Im 22 years old"

Normal.
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