Overeating may be a sign of him escaping some emotional issue that's bothering him... Is he a Cancer (or has prominent Cancer in his astrological chart)? Those can be sooo sensitive, which is very sweet, but they easily get affected by emotions to the point of shutting down and withdrawing.
Also, check his horoscope (and compare with yours too). You can get a free one (Western style) on astro.com If say he has Mars in an air sign, he may not be that much into "doing" it in general, relative to someone with Mars in say fire signs. There is more to astrology than this, but may give you a quick clue... helps, if you can't pull words out of him and have nothing else to go with...
And yes, there are men who simply don't have high libido... typically, I see lots of air and little fire in their charts. Earth signs influence in charts--sensual, steady, will give you a massage!; water--very sensual, loves to merge with lover, but moody and can be unpredictable.
Also, check his horoscope (and compare with yours too). You can get a free one (Western style) on astro.com If say he has Mars in an air sign, he may not be that much into "doing" it in general, relative to someone with Mars in say fire signs. There is more to astrology than this, but may give you a quick clue... helps, if you can't pull words out of him and have nothing else to go with...
And yes, there are men who simply don't have high libido... typically, I see lots of air and little fire in their charts. Earth signs influence in charts--sensual, steady, will give you a massage!; water--very sensual, loves to merge with lover, but moody and can be unpredictable.
Good luck!