Are You Normal?

Curious how others might perceive your situation? Submit your story today and find out what others think...

Is he a c*nt or am I too sensitive?
52% Normal
20 Comments

I'm sorry, this is a long one but its well worth it.

I dumped my boyfriend for this boy, and I thought I made the right choice. He seemed perfect in a lot of ways and although I was well aware he had his flaws, they weren't big.
The one flaw that is probably going to cause me to dump him though, is the fact he's always talking about his ex (whom he was with years ago). He claims he dumped her but sometimes I wonder. It's just little things like when he sees the mug I'm using he says "Me and Crystal bought that mug" or the other night, and this is what caused me to flip, we were discussing cow-tipping and I said it was cruel, he said I'm a hypocrite because I eat them, I said I'm not because they're killed in a humane way, and he replied (and I quote) "If Crystal was here she'd say you're a hypocrite". I stormed off and ignored him all night.

Am I being too sensitive or is he being a c*nt that isn't over her?
Do you think it's normal?
Does this story fit one of these flags? If so, click it! [Best Of] [Funny] [Interesting] [Weird][Lame] [Off Topic] [Innapropriate]
Comments (20)
no u r so not being oversensitive! i went thru the same thing with a boyfriend a year ago omg it is so annoying! tell him to stick the relationship up his arse... u can so do better than sum1 hu talks bout his ex girlfrend all the time. find sum1 hu onli as eyes for u and dnt talk bout stuff that they no u dnt rle want to hear. gd luck x
Next time tell him why don't you stay with Crystal. You're not sensitive. He should know that he shouldn't say his x this or his x that in front of you. Try to warn him about it
he's obviously not over his ex. he probably just used you as rebound.
He sopunds like a cunt get rid of nim
WHAT A JERK! who talks about their ex to their new girlfriend? only idiots to my knoledge!(no offence)

PERSONALY I WOULD DUMP HIM
Correct my if im wrong but your his rebound. He's so still into his ex and your presence isn't important to him! You should leave him, and you should never have left your ex!
These unnessicary comments about his ex would need to stop if you were going to continue with your relationship with him, whether you tell him to stop raving about his ex's adventures, or he finds out. One way or another you are slightly sensitive.

PS: He might want more from you if he keeps this up.
You're way too sensitive and he isn't a cunt.

He's talking about his ex girlfriend whilst he's with you. So what? It doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to get back together with her.

I used to talk to my boyfriend about my ex a fair amount of the time and no way did I want to get back together with my ex. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 5 years now. We could be completely honest and open with one another and talk about anything.

Maybe certain things remind him about her?
Maybe he thinks that you're comfortable with the subject?
Maybe he feels comfortable talking to you about the past?
Maybe he does actually want to get back together with her?

There could be lots of different reasons and this is why you're being sensitive.

Have you tried to talk to him about it?
Have you told him that you don't like it?
Have you asked him why he keeps talking about your ex?

Oh, and not forgetting that you dumped your ex boyfriend for this guy so getting into this relationship is of your own doing.
He's just not over her yet...
That's his problem
But now yours for ditching your guy to be with him.
hes a baby. and big baby and he misses crystals breast milk. dump him for a man
lol
Sounds pretty funny to me just doing it to wind you up and it worked do the same back about that other guy you were seeing say "if so and so was here he wouldnt do that" see how he reacts but hes right though no animal is killed in a humane way they still got to die which is pretty painful either way!
he's a cunt who not over his ugly ho if he cant realize you are there for him and with him you need to dump him and maybe he'll realize take a break let him begg you back hes a dirty dog!!!

good luck
He sounds a little fruity if you ask me.
Wow.

That's too funny.

He's probably tagging that on the side.
Alright, you thought he was an awesome guy. I've learned some stuff from experience. He might want to be with his ex still BUT it would hurt him MORE if you break up with him... you wouldn't want to be the one to ruin his next relationship... You should stick with him for a while, tell him how you feel. Break up with him though if he continues talking about her. Tell him you don't want to hear about his ex, if you've already done so then break up with him, he's not quite over her...
all right dump his ass
thats not right,.. you have to tell him that talking about his ex makes you feel uncomfortable...he has to listen to you because i'm sure he wouldnt like it if you did that same thing to him.
Kill him in his sleep.
if you stay with him hes just going to keep mentioning little things botu her, my solution is you should tell him how you feel then once youve told him if he carrys on finish it if he dont then problem solved!