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My mom had a boyfriend about 6 years ago, B, and he lives up north while we live down south. He came down and visited us within a couple of months of he and my mom dating. Before he left to go back home, he kissed me goodbye, but on the lips! The next summer, me and my family went up to visit him and his 2 sons. One day, me and B just happened to be alone in his room for whatever reason...I was only 10 so I can't remember, but he kissed me again on the lips and it felt really awkward! A couple years later, me and B were talking on AIM and we were talking about how I never wear skirts and he said I'd look "so beautiful in one". Maybe a year or so ago, he dated this other woman who had a daughter V, who is the same age as me and V and I have become best friends practically over the last couple of years. V's mom and B broke up and B has been trying to get back together with V's mom, but V's mom thinks B is creepy. I asked V why and she told me that one day her, B, & her mom were sitting at the table and B was asking V all these personal questions like her bra size and such. Another time, V and her friend were swimming in B's pool and B kept taking pictures of them and not even paying attention to V's mom. Is any of this behavior normal. Me and V are teens and B is 50 years old.
Do you think it's normal?
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-12-28 17:05:37
yeah he sounds like a sick old perv.the older some guys get the younger the chicks they want become.id stay away from him and tell your friend not to be alone with him.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-28 17:46:51
Yeah hes a perv. He may not cross the line but the kissing on the lips is to far its not like hes your dad. I find it hard to imagine you would become friends with his new girls friend daughter when all he was to you was a "moms boyfriend" for a little while. Any how you already knew he was and I think your mom needs to know about the kisses so shes aware and can warn others who have kids that might be around him.
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Lockets (9540)
2007-12-28 18:24:54
Sounds like he is dodgy and you and V had a lucky escape there.
Good point Chris made, how did you manage to meet B's new woman and her daughter?
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inlovewithlove1991 (11993)
2007-12-28 19:00:52
V was friends w/ B's son so one day while i was talking to B's son on AIM, V was over & we started chatting & yeah.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-28 19:01:40
@: inlovewithlove1991
Hmmmmm....
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-12-28 20:12:14
wait till he slips you the tongue then youll knopw for sure
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nearly (10533)
2007-12-29 01:45:39
@: inlovewithlove1991
Whats with all this name cloneing?????
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Lockets (9540)
2007-12-29 04:24:04
@: inlovewithlove1991
How come you were friends with B's son then?
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-29 06:10:41
@: Lockets
Because both b and v and v's daughter are all made up people. Like imaginary friends you could say.
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Lockets (9540)
2007-12-29 12:33:39
@: Chris_Ufc
Lol, I agree!
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inlovewithlove1991 (11993)
2007-12-29 12:48:25
ya'll are stupid. they are not made up people..get a fucking life! u think every story on here is fake when there are people out there (like me) who really need advice & stuff...so if u dont have anything good to say, go away!

anyways i dont wanna use their real names in order to protect the people. like i said Lockets, my mom dated B 6 years ago & i started talking to his son through email & we became really good friends..sometime in the course of our friendship, we were talking on AIM & V was over at his house...so while B's son J was in the bathroom, V got on his s/n & started talking to me & we've been friends ever since.
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Lockets (9540)
2007-12-29 14:41:38
@: inlovewithlove1991
Sorry.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-29 15:17:15
@: inlovewithlove1991
I still dont believe you but I already gave you advice. You know something is up with this guy. Why do you need all these fucked up people to tell you that?
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AnGeLgIrL2008 (12779)
2008-01-08 20:46:30
spam ur an loser
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inlovewithlove1991 (11993)
2008-01-09 16:21:17
@: AnGeLgIrL2008
go lie in a hole.
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TheJudge (15259)
2008-07-21 05:51:05
You are obviously uncomfortable with what B has done to you. A grown man should not kiss a 10 year old girl on the lips. Do not be alone with B. If he keeps behaving this way tell your mother. If she does nothing, and he keeps doing it, tell other adults that you trust.
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flikr (10636)
2008-08-03 18:37:10
@: cabinet70
LMFAO

everyone is all super serious, and then out of nowhere you make that comment

then everyone gets all serious again
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TheJudge (15259)
2008-08-12 02:54:14
Nearly all of us agree that B is a potential child abuser. Tell your mother about him. Do not be along with him. Warn your friends about him. It is not unusual for a middle aged man to be attracted to teenage girls, but his behavior is unacceptable.
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OuCh_ThAt_HuRt (8544)
2008-08-12 06:19:22
make a pass at him and get him on tape then turn it over to the cops...

If he isnt stopped he will act out...maybe violantly!!!
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Pringletot (13040)
2008-08-12 13:17:05
Yes he's a pedo, simple as that and I should know

And ouch just because he's a pedo doesnt mean he's going to act out violently. I wouldn't actually get violent with a young girl, I'd just leave it and if the cops come calling I would deny it and think of excuses before hand, or whatever to keep me out of jail.
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OuCh_ThAt_HuRt (8544)
2008-08-12 14:40:16
@: Pringletot
hey no doubt pedos come from all walk of life!
Yrachers,bakers or even babysitters!
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Pringletot (13040)
2008-08-12 14:48:26
dunno, I dont wanna lose my virginity to a littlegirl, but I like the idea of a bj from one, though when I have the opportunity I'm not sure if I'll take it or not
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Pringletot (13040)
2008-08-12 14:49:58
@: OuCh_ThAt_HuRt
pedos come from a shit load of other places, anyone really. Underage kids can also be pedos, business men, farmers, and every other thing u can think of can hav pedos in it
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OuCh_ThAt_HuRt (8544)
2008-08-13 09:38:12
Why just becaue I realizesed you were a pedo with the first thing you ever said on here?
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iluvredsnapper (8072)
2008-08-13 13:39:02
No doubt he was probably thinking of you while fucking your momma!
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spamjaveIin (15511)
2008-08-13 15:07:43
creepy guy, sounds like what normal_gay might do in a similar situation
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spamjaveIin (15511)
2008-08-13 16:06:43
naw, not hatred maybe severe disdain is more descriptive. for one thing, I don't fancy pedophiles, so its not even a personal thing, me animosity towards normal_gay.
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shadow1004 (16901)
2008-10-16 20:38:34
@: inlovewithlove1991
next time just change their names like if the guys name is ben change it to edward get it its way much easier to know who is who...

but probrably "b" is pedo
i hope i find a "b" in female verson... i wanna have my 1st time...
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_Elise_ (5781)
2008-10-28 10:34:18
This was like learning the alphabet all over again.

And to answer the question, it isn't normal one bit. Errr creepy. I'd be happy he's gone out of my life. xx
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inlovewithlove1991 (11993)
2009-02-16 00:59:30
things have improved...i'm 18 now but thankfully john (B) doesn't talk to me in an uncomfortable way, but unfortunately my friend (V) turned 18 too & john is dating her mom again & was really eager to see my friend at her 18th birthday party, but luckily didn't do anything gross
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