me and my guy friend ( that i like ) talk about sex alot. but we're both still vigins and shyt. we say were ganna lose it with eachother. but theres like 10 other girls he told that to too. do you think he would just use me for sex?
is he man?? OF COURSE he is using you. i will tell you how a man's brain work:
95% of the time is thinking about sex... the other 5% of the time, is thinking on how to get that sex...
he said same to at least another 5 girls... i am not so sure he is virgin and if he is, he just want to do you...
open your eyes honey..
He is just having normal teenage hormones. The thing you need to realize is if he can have the same conversation with that many different people he probably has already lost his virginity and uses that as a hook to reel girls in and make them think it will be a special experience that only the two of them have shared. I really dont think you should lose your virginity to the boy, neither one of you sound old enough to have sex anyway. Trust me it's not worth it, it will always be in the back of your mind, no matter how much you love this boy, or think you love him, when it's over you will regret it. But after all it's your decision but you need to
A)Make sure you use protection, not just a condom but you need to be on birth control because you do not want to be a teen mother, or a victim of the decision of an abortion
B)Definately make sure you know this boy more than you do now, take some time to observe his conduct and maybe ask some of the girls if he has had sex with them, if he is already that damn promiscuios and a "virgin" he could have a disease and pass it to you, then what???
ever think your using him for sex, that poor guy being taken advantage of you, he is prob telling other people to get help... stop pressuring him and if wants to have sex with you then he wil... i promise.
I could write a funny non meaningfull response.. but this is pretty serious.. and i feel strongly about this. YOU ONLY GET ONE FIRST TIME.. make it worth it.. im not going to tell you when you should.. what age.. bla bla.. but remember from older ppl, and more experienced ppl, will alaways tellyou, that its worth the wait, make sure you do it with the right person, cause you will remember that time your whole life. I have never really shared this before, but i will now. THis is a true story, i was going out with this girl, for some time, over 9 months, and she really really wanted to break her viginity with me, and i wanted to have sex too, dont get me wrong.. i am a guy, i check out titis and asses all day long, but i was double minded, and in the end i broke up with her, cause i felt pressured... now some guyz me call me a pussy or whatever, but when i did meet my next gurl, i knew for a fact she was the one.. and i was soo glad that i waited.... I will always remember my first time.. for ever and ever....
And YEA HE IS JUST TRYING TO GET SOME ANY WAY HE CAN...
Make the smart choice.. think about it manytimes... not just at the spur of the moment..
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WHAT!?!?!?!?
Are you pulling my pisser!?!?!?!?
95% of the time is thinking about sex... the other 5% of the time, is thinking on how to get that sex...
he said same to at least another 5 girls... i am not so sure he is virgin and if he is, he just want to do you...
open your eyes honey..
A)Make sure you use protection, not just a condom but you need to be on birth control because you do not want to be a teen mother, or a victim of the decision of an abortion
B)Definately make sure you know this boy more than you do now, take some time to observe his conduct and maybe ask some of the girls if he has had sex with them, if he is already that damn promiscuios and a "virgin" he could have a disease and pass it to you, then what???
Please be smart in your decision!
And YEA HE IS JUST TRYING TO GET SOME ANY WAY HE CAN...
Make the smart choice.. think about it manytimes... not just at the spur of the moment..