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Is it a normal feeling to be attracted to your cousin?
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At a recent wedding I attended I saw a cousin I hadn't seen in 10 or so years and felt very, very attracted to him. I don't have an desire to act on these feelings but I was just wondering if its common to be attracted to other family members. We all sort of look a like so I'm wondering if its an ego thing....I'm honestly not sure though. All night I would glance at him, the weirdest part is, when I did look at him this song would come on in my head...I feel this really weird connection to him. He's 8 years older then me and the last time I saw him I was about 9, so I don't know him at all, but I feel like I have other memories I can't access of him. It's really weird. They're not childhood memories, the feel older...I really can't explain it.
Has anyone else felt this before? I'm at a loss.
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yes... its normal... im sorta attracted 2 mine
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Yeah but you're just a tit.
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Okay, I'm glad I'm not the only person that thinks their attracts to their own cousin. I'm really close with mine and e love to joke around and stuff but I can never get past the fact thy he is one of the hottest it's I have ever seen:) totally normal, don't worry
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Ollieo
Well you know not to act on your feelings. And the attraction you felt sounds maybe like genetic sexual attraction. Don't know if that is common, or even valid.
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Last May, so resolved by now?

YES, it is very normal. I know cousins that have married- a few of them. Everyone talked, but ??

Scientists are now saying if the relation is farther apart than first cousins, it is OK to be having kids... and many first cousins that marry just choose NOT to have kids.

Have to say, I've met many that just had affairs.

That having been said, I would try to avoid him, as the whole family will be severely and permanently affected...
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OMG i havent seen mine in years too and i think she is hot, but she is my cousin so i would never think of doing anything with her beacuse that would totally just gross me out.
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It is absolutely normal. Go ahead. Only for getting a 100% healthy baby, take physician's advise without fail. Healthy baby is 100% important and it is your responsibility.
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lover_your_lover
normal
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It is very normal for that to happen. Einstein married the love of his life, who was his first cousin. I say go for it.
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I first felt attracted to my older cousing when I was like five and didn't know what sex is. I still feel the pull to them, It's never a sexual feeling, but it isn't normal familial love. I don't know what to call it really. I would never do so much as kiss her, which is somewhat strange because I kiss almost all of my family members (Not in a weird way). The thing is if she wasn't my cousin, she would be exactly my type. She's a vegetarian and a hippy, with a very alternative style and attractive facial features.
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hmmm....okay this is going to sound really weird and you're probably not going to believe me anyway, but you said you wanted answers so... i think that you guys are 'soul mates' okay that sounded retarded. but if you feel that kind of connection, i know that's what it is, I've had it too and i married mine. :D i know he's your cousin but i think you should go for it anyway. at least he's not your brother, lol. then i would have to say no, but cousins aren't so bad. anyway, it's not normal because hardly anyone EVER meet their 'one true love' or whatever, and i think it would be a shame to pass this up. but do what you want. :D
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thats what i was thinking even before i read your reply. but i was also thinking that (ok this might sound weird and people wont agree) you knew or were very close to your cousin in a previous life, so what i'm saying is that by some cosmic force your previous lover or what not has reinencarnated to be your cousin and vise verrsa to him :) hope i helped
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stop with the "Oh I feel like I know him better but can't remember: bullshit. (annoyed)

he's a cousin. and older. 8 years

find a man.
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@: Senken
Dear Senken,

Having a significant other has nothing to do with being attracted to another person either. Stop being a troll, get a life and maybe you should get a man.

<3 KayThanksBaiii
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bookworm006
Not really all that normal!
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I have a cousin that lives rlly far a way that I rarely see but now she has an extremely nice body and everything, lik extremely nice, and rlly likes me cuz she always stares at me and tries to get next to me and all that but idk wut I shood do. Her and a lot if other family are staying with us for three more days and it is getting rlly hard to ignore her. I'm thinking that I shood just go for her since I prolly won't see her for lik5 years anyway. Before she came to stay with my family I was lik ok I know she likes me but thats rlly weird cuz she us my cousin. Then u saw her and was lik uh oh she is insanely cute and got a rlly nice body since I saw her last. Then she began staring at me and doin all that stuff and if it was anyone else it wood rlly rlly bother me and rooin my day and lik make it so they know I see them doin that and lik hide my face but with her i I make eye contact and act lik I don't care. But she lik rlly lik me and it was getting hard to ignore her and easy to forget that she is my cousin for a while and now she has a good I idea that I lik her but idk. She is young so if she wanted to do anything it wood be lik kissing or something and I wood be down with that if she weren't my cousin but I just don't think I cood do that with her. I wood definatly not mind taking her clothes off though. Idk but u have to understand that I have a lot of family over at my house too and is very dangerous for us to do this stuff so ya if u read all that thank u so much and tell Me what u think
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Its not normal
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