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Is it better to be gay or straight?
I am a 17 year old bisexual guy, but I'm thinking of being gay, here is my story:
I have been straight for most of my life but when I was 15 I found myself sexual attracted towards guys and i was confused for a year then when i was 16 i gave up and pronouced that I was bisexual, but i never dated a guy and I have dated every type of girl there is, prep, goth, emo, punk, dork, fat, you name it, but none of them truly make me happy and all i want in a girl is to like anime and video games and love me, but it is impossible, so i am thinking of becoming gay, cause i know there are loads of guys who love the same stuff as me, but i know guys break hearts too, but i just don't know, is it better to be gay or straight, please help me.
I have been straight for most of my life but when I was 15 I found myself sexual attracted towards guys and i was confused for a year then when i was 16 i gave up and pronouced that I was bisexual, but i never dated a guy and I have dated every type of girl there is, prep, goth, emo, punk, dork, fat, you name it, but none of them truly make me happy and all i want in a girl is to like anime and video games and love me, but it is impossible, so i am thinking of becoming gay, cause i know there are loads of guys who love the same stuff as me, but i know guys break hearts too, but i just don't know, is it better to be gay or straight, please help me.
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You need to ask yourself if you would be willing to do a guy in the ass, and/or have your ass pounded for the sake of a quick-compatable relationship.
you are only 17, and finding the exactly right woman who is good for you and meets your criteria is not an easy or quick process- it takes years. Why do you think there are so many dating sites? Why there are so many people constantly bitching about love, even when they are 50 and up...
Figure out your sexuality first, then begin the epic search lol ;)
ur coool
love ya *kisses*
The reasons for that are because we live in a biggoted world where what is good today will be bad tomorrow. Being gay is no cakewalk believe you me. I have been gay all my life even though I got married and had 3 sons. The amount of crap you have to deal with as a gay, I couldn't begin to tell you. You'd need a year at least to cover all the ground. You have surely seen the crap thrown around in here and that is mild believe me, compared to what you get one on one face to face.
People are two faced and back stabbers. There are some who will accept you for what you are but they are few and far between. Most will keep you at a distance, appear to befriend you only to talk and backstab when you are not there. You'll get the name calling, the cars being vandalised, your house being burgled and/or vandleised. Like I said I could go on for a very long time. You need a certain strength of both will and charactor to be gay and out. Sorry mate, I don't see it in you yet. It may come, it may not. For your sake I hope not.
Good luck, and think long and hard before you make that decision. Maybe even years. You are far too young to make it now because for the rest of your life you are going to have to live with that decision.
ur shit faced
hate ya *gun shots*
My answer was honest and about being honest. There is the other option if you want to live a lie. You can be gay and get a boyfriend and never come out. Many have and it worked fine for them.
However, if you are gay and come out, there is ALWAYS an asshole around the corner waiting to take a poke at you. I am 60 years old and can assure you THAT has not changed at all. There are also always the two faced ones who are pally to your face and back stab you at every chance. I promise you seriously. The life of a gay is not an easy one even in todays climate which is far more relaxed and accepting than they were in my youth.
I have been gay ever since I can recall as early as five years old. I have never been attracted to women in the teeniest tiny bit. I was born gay. Therefore YOUR God made me gay.
I wish the religious types would wake up and actually read the bible instead of just taking out little snippets of scripture.
You're "thinking" about becoming gay?
You don't "think" about becoming gay.
You are bisexual. That's that.
You may however decide to attempt to spend your life in a relationship with a man or men, however promiscuous you may be.
Yes, there are women that have your interests but I would think that they are uncommon.
-dirt dobbler
I totally disagree with violent10dency - I know a ton of bisexual people who are simply that - bisexual. Attraction isn't even that binary - it's not just gay, bi, straight either, you can have various inbetween shades that most people don't recognize.
For me, bisexuality WAS a transitional phase (I was bisexual since as far as I can remember until I hit puberty, since then I've become progressively gayer). For a lot of people it's easier to come to grips with than calling themselves completely gay.
But I also know a lot of people who are bisexual, but leaning more to the straight side, or bi, but a little more on the gay side. It's all completely normal, and may change or stay the same. Just go with what feels right, men, women, or both.
-Thanks
how would a guy give birth to a child though.....
Guys, however, are..........
FUCKING FAGGOTS ALL THEY ALL DIE
There might be a girl like me out there, just keep looking.
It is important to be yourself, when the time is right you will know in your heart what you are
Dumb ass
so mr god lover he made some people attracted to the same sex.
Unfortunately he made you too...
OMG did god make a mistake? I would prefer the so called gays than people like you but we all have to live on this planet together
GET OVER IT!
Choices choices...
It's called a video game store.