Is it cause i'm ugly or sumtin!

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Looks play a big part of attraction because it is more often the first thing noticeable. Social skills are also important and may be an area you could improve upon. Are you introverted and/or shy? Do you tend to keep to yourself and not approach girls or initiate conversation? You may try to befriend girls who share similar traits as yourself in the social skills area. If you are a quiet person, seek girls who are similar. Join clubs and participate in actitivities you enjoy, it will give you something in common with others and make friendships easier to come by.

I obviously don't know you, these are just some suggestions to consider and may be of help. Age 16 is still very young and many your age have never had romance. I also found once I got out of high school, entered college, that things became much easier to meet girls. High school is not the most conducive for romance, so don't let it bother you, get out and have fun.

From what youve written it sounds like a personality problem you must be a geek or something work on that

Have you tried to get a girlfriend? These things don't just happen you know.

yes, you are ugly

shut up, i'm asking for womens opinions, not mens!!!!

well yer u sound like a gd lookin guy... but maybe u need to work on ur personality? r u kind and friendly and funny? and wen ppl laff are they laffing with u or at u? coz guys usually think ther funny wen actually ppl jus think they r stoopid. anywayz jus try and be nicer to ppl and be urself

i am kind and friendly and funny-ish, sometimes people laugh at me, but mostly with me, like while i was doin some charity work over christmas, i wore a pink wig, i found while goin through a pile of toys for dis-advantaged kids, for about 3 days!

oh and i'm a really honourable person, so if i give you my word i'll keeep that promise! and i'm really chivalrus (u know opening doors for women, ladies first, etc...) so as i've been told b4 i am a "true Gentlemen!"

i no wot chivalrus means... tho i dnt no how to spell it lol... u jus had to drop in the charity work thing didnt ya lol. k i admit u sound like a rle nice guy. jus giv it time i am sure u will get a girlfrend wen the time is right! x

actually the charity work is manditory in my school year, i only called it that cause, ost ppl outside of irelad won't know what i mean if i call it, it's other name

omg u hav to do charity work in ireland? dint no that... spose its quite a gd idea rle. anywayz gd luck wiv the girlfriend thing! x

thx, and only some schools do the charity work thing, namely mine and a few others!

Take it from me Link3.1 girls may say that they want kind, sensitive, caring, romance, friendship, yadiyadiyadda bullshit. In reality they want hard big black cock. Seeing as you and I don't have that we gotta get huge muscles, confidence, slight asshole, and get to work on those cock push ups. Then these girls will fucking fall to their knees.

Either that or you can keep wearing pink wigs!

firstly the wig was a joke and it was for charity. and secondly how bout no you crazy dutch bastard!

it's becaues you typed "sumtin".

people are retarded here...Do you have any friends that are girls? you could always ask them about it they could help u out and maybe one will even prob get with u :D

It's probably your personality:

"shut up, i'm asking for womens opinions, not mens!!!!" - Makes you seem a bit of a cunt as the other guys were only trying to help.

And you don't sound like you are funny at all: "how bout no you crazy dutch b*s***d!" - People who take lines from films to try and look funny usually have a very low form of wit and personal humour.

i didn't know that line came from a movie!! i made it up randomly a couple o years ago!

secondly i hav a great personality!

I got my first girlfriend a month or two before I turned 18.

just be a jerk..dont give a crap about "feelings"..dont be the nice guy..you will just end up being the "friend"

no, it's because you have a small penis.

STFU!! u don't know about "The Beast!!!!!!!!!"

hehehe

well i'm a 15 years old and i'm a blonde and i'm very pretty and alot og guys ask me out all the time but i like guys with a funny personality but can't find one so i have the same problem!

i'd say i hav a great personality! but the thing is my main problem is i hav no self-confidence when it comes to askin girls out(unless i hav a few drinks on me!) hehehe

emm.... no!

and anyway u look like u could never get any girls! camel u look like a trekkie! hehe

U sound pretty HOT to me. :D

OMG IT'S THAT FUCKING BASTARD CAMEL FREAKIN' UGLY GUY LEAVE THIS SITE AND NEVER COME BACK U ARE A FREAKIN' IDIOT!
(He told me to kill myself to...and some other stuff)

I was talking about Link2.0 (4213) not the camel guy. :)

And from what I heared on SexTalk girls(I woulden't know cause' I'm 11 and a virgin) like big dicks. (excuse my launguage...:)

But u sound HOT to me. Not the camel guy!...just sayin'.

I really can't say a whole lot because you didn't post a picture of yourself! Makes me wonder if you are hiding something....unlike the Camel guy that we can all tell is ugly and couldn't get a girlfriend if he tried!

It has to be some thing you are putting out that gives a neg. responce. Look at yourself, and ask others around you what they think! Then find the pretiest gurl at your school and ask her out! UNLESS... you are100% sure she has a BF> But, find some one that really looks good...alot of those gurls are actually lonely!

ok! i'm going to upload a pic of myself so ppl can see what i look like!!
oh and secondly there is no girls at my skwl(grr!) but i do know a bunch of girls from a nearby all-girls skwl!

Okay maybe you have an average personality.

Women liek men who look dangerous. Id choose teh guy with the slight dangerous look anyday. he needs to have some form of a sense of humor and he needs to learn to smile

and god, give strong eyecontact, tell the chicks that you want that your interested. We arent telepathic

sunset445 what the fuck does that have to do with anything in this story?!?!?!?

send pic to e mail. you probably are ugly.

It's because you CAN'T SPELL!

I'd give you one.
I've never kissed a guy (unlike all my friends), I'm not overweight, I'm not ugly (people have told me I'm very pretty, but I think they're joking) I think I have an ok personality. I haven't got a boyfriend because I don't want one, plus I'm a geek. And extremely odd.
In short, you're normal.

U sound like a female version of me! LOL :D !!!

Link you sound like an utter twat, only way to solve your problem is drink some bleach. Fucker

STFU!

yeah mate saw that pic you are an ugly cunt. best bet is start fresh. better luck in the next life!

Link, I think it's cuz you seem to be a homophobe.
Girls don't like homophobes
Curiously, they DO seem to like bisexual guys like me who can be masculine AND feminine cuz for some reason that turns them on
Also, learn to eat pussy and your luck will change, you'd be amazed how much ass you get when you have a reputation for giving good head

im not a homophobe!!

-shrug- maybe I assumed too much
some of your posts seem rather homophobic
maybe you're not, but yeah I don't know why you haven't gotten a gf . . .
just be outgoing and, as soon as they seem interested, totally ignore them and be aloof and they'll get so worked up about you teasing them they HAVE to talk to you/call you/IM you etc.
Show a little sensitivity too, then be all mysterious like you have a dark past to hide
they go for that
also, stealthily spread around that you can eat pussy like a champ
you'll get like 30 e-mails from random girls who have boyfriends who are terrible at it or are single and never had it done and are DYING to get it done (yes, I'm serious)
good luck

dude dont worry, and its personality, and if u think ur ugly, get ur hair dresser to give u a cut that looks good, hair plays a HUGE part in looks, like it can make ur face look different and shiz, and like the second comment said, try things just dont happen and just be calm and cool

females throughout human history judge males not so much by looks but by status in social group. Lead the men and the women will fallow. Qualities that a are of a high status male are confidence in self - independent thinking, strong social recognition from both sexes, domination of rival males physically or socially, physical health, pre-selection by other females, etc.