Is it normal for my boyfriend to want me to lick his asshole? Instead of having me suck his dick, he puts his ass in the air and opens it up for me... That's fine. He gets super hard and all that BUT my main concern is why won't he go down on me? Ever! He refuses. I used to ask so many times but now I just know he won't. Why? :( I don't smell.. It's weird since my exes always wanted to and now nothing! Yet he insists on me liking his butt hole..?