I'm currently 18. Not that I'm old enough to define my life, but I have this feeling that I've been hated all my life. it's not that I didn't have friends, i had tons. I have had really amazing friends who would tell me the truth, back me up when i need something. but most of my friends(don't even know if they were ever my friends...) were against me. when I'm arguing about something that i know for sure is right, they would stand against me, team up, and push me down. I was never the one to win an argument even if it was something everyone would agree with.
everyone picks on me for anything that happens. I was fine with this stupid stuff, until now. I feel like i shouldn't make any friends anymore. all i get from them is anger. i can never let myself out and all i hear is some crap i can't do. they bring my confidence down, and give me crap for not having enough confident. I'm so sad that I'm the one everyone would always pick on. It's not that I get picked on by same people either. when i move and make some new friends, soon i find myself getting picked on. i act like i don't care, i act like it's so usual that it's okay but it's really not.. I know that i am very sensitive person. I feel something other people don't. IIN to have, or think that all my friends are always against me?
everyone picks on me for anything that happens. I was fine with this stupid stuff, until now. I feel like i shouldn't make any friends anymore. all i get from them is anger. i can never let myself out and all i hear is some crap i can't do. they bring my confidence down, and give me crap for not having enough confident. I'm so sad that I'm the one everyone would always pick on. It's not that I get picked on by same people either. when i move and make some new friends, soon i find myself getting picked on. i act like i don't care, i act like it's so usual that it's okay but it's really not.. I know that i am very sensitive person. I feel something other people don't. IIN to have, or think that all my friends are always against me?
i mean on one hand you say you have great friends. then you say your friends are always against you.
if this seems to happen with everyone you ever meet, you may want to consider talking to a therapist. to figure out if it's something you're doing or if it's just an incorrect assumption.
for example, i've had plenty of people tell me that i tend to cut them off while talking. why? Because I do. it's not them, it's something I really do, which is why everyone says it.
you've got to figure out... is it something you really do. or is it something they're just being picky about
To the person who asked the question ... I know how you feel I have spent most of my life in a similar situation where you make friends easily and think they are really great but in the end they turn on you one way or another.
It is normal to be hurt by this and as one of the others that commented said you like me being a little more sensitive probably show your hurt even if only for a moment. In regards to another persons comment I have wondered if there is something that I do that makes this happen and have never got an honest answer and will take your advice on trying to get a answer out of someone thank you for your comment it was helpful