Is it Normal for a 14 year old girl to have sex

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That isn't normal. At all.

Buy her birth-control, don't tell your parents, help her out as much as you can because she is your sister and you wouldn't want to see her get into any situations such as pregnancy or AIDS, very rare, but hey, who know what could happen, she isn't the only person having sex at 14, STI's could be crawling around everywhere...

Many girls are fully sexually mature by the age of 14. I am not saying she has made a smart/good choice, but the fact is that it is quite normal for girls to start having sex that early.

Totally normal. Legal? Probably not. Acceptable? Depends on the societal context. Advisable? Hardly. But totally normal if history teaches anything.

14 YEAR OLDS SHOULD NOT BE HAVING SEX.
IT'S WRONG.
THEY'RE NOT ADULTS AND THEY MAY NOT KNOW ABOUT HEALTHY SEXUALITY.
A HEALTHY SEXUAL MALE OR FEMALE HAS TO BE AT LEAST 18 YEARS OF AGE OR OLDER AND MUST HAVE A PARTNER THAT LOVES THEM.
PLEASE, IF ANYONE ON THIS SITE IS 14 YEARS OLD, DON'T DO ANYTHING STUPID.

It's not normal to us, but it's normal to them. It's the common thing for young kids to do these days.

Historically girls of 14 are of reproductive age, only in relatively recent human history have arbitrary, morally derived limits been set for consent giving. We can not escape our nature, but with intellect we can temper it so give her condoms and get her on the pill and make sure the guy she is doing it with is not a tosser. If he is taking advantage have him dealt with.

Stupid, but sadly normal.
Many stupid things are normal.

That's when I lost mine. I regret who I lost it to, but it's still normal.

I wish sex could just be removed from emotions and true intimacy found somewhere else.

No. you are a slut. go back to blowing bubbles, not boys. chao

It's late. Nowadays they do it around the age of 11-12

At that age i would say very wrong. Tell your parents. But then again there is the chance that she could be lying she is only fourteen.

i agree with the person above, that is risky esp if there wasn't protection which there probably wasn't

why would that not be normal? age of consent is 14 in many european countries for a reason...

that said, it will depend on your local society...

That's very early. I hope she won't regret it later on.

not normal. but some kids like to think they're all grown up at that age and know everything.

I'd say it's normal :/ intact all my friends were 12/13 but where I'm from that is normal... I also went to school with youngest mum in britain (11 & a mum) I'm not saying I agree with it or condone it at all but I think it's normal due to peer pressure etc >< x

She probably isnt lying and really did have sex. Times are a changing.....

Normal concidering humanity and more important teenagers these days!

Actually , speaking of that stuff , I never use to believe it but it is true what they say. Girls are so much more advanced than boys it ain't funny.

That is around when I lost mime

You shouldn't have sex when your 14 your going to get pregnet and have a baby and take care of it and other stuff

Yeah its terrible, she was sexually abused. She didnt even want to have sex let alone a baby :/ x

I answered normal, not that I condone anyone having sex at 14. In my opinion 14 is way to young (emotionally), but I know from my own generation and remembering back to being age 14, that I new numerous people who had sex at 14, even a few at age 12. I had sex at age 15 without much thought and unfortunately very naive and I was led to believe having sex before 16 in general was very normal. Youngsters are going to try and be as grown up as they wish to be and defy what is "acceptable" within society, I just wish kids realized from a young age that there is no pressure to start being sexually active and that waiting can be MORE beneficial psychologically and make for better more enjoyable sex when your ready.

Its natural why not enjoy

Tell your parents and let them deal with her. It's not your job to do so but it's normal to feel upset. You should tell your parents so she can get on birth control. Like the shot so she won't "forget"

Is it normal? Actually, yeah, it is. Maybe that's why my sister has 18 month old daughter at the age of barely 17, is with a different guy from her baby's father now and thinks she might be pregnant again. That's just the first part of her problems. That being said, is it right? Nope. I am almost 21 years old, and when I was 14... I knew what it was, thanks to middle school, but as it shouldn't be, it wasn't looked at as a "socially acceptable" act. You are not an adult when you are 14 year old, therefore your decisions that you make at that age should be that of a child not a full grown adult. Sex is not the act of children, whether you 14 year olds out there think you are children or not. There is a reason why movies and etc. are 18 and up, and why TV (used to be... isn't anymore because this country has no standards) is censored. So on that note, it is normal... but it is not a good thing, at all.

WTF?! definitely not normal! This is insane. Did she tell you who she lost it too? She could've been taken advantage by someone. Get as many facts from her as you can and then tell your parents.

they shouldnt and its wrong, but nowadays things like this are common -.-

Lol, bake her a cake that says Congrats on being a whore. Lolololol

I wouldn't say it was advisable but plenty do it at that age so I would say its probably normal. I lost my virginity at 13 which is a little young but I was in a loving relationship for a year with a 16 year old and it was a lovely experience. However, after splitting with my first love my sexual activities spiralled out of control and I had numerous non loving experiences I would be very happy to forget. I think the ages of both partners is relevant to this question as two 14 year olds may make silly choices but say a 14 year old and a 22 year old... That's taking advantage in my opinion. My advise is try not to direct your anger at her as you may well push her away and then if she gets into a sticky situation later on she may feel reluctant to confide in you.

Everyone (almost) that i knew started at 14-15. I did, so it's pretty normal to me. People called you a loser if you didn't, welcom to gen y.

The fact is that she is too young 2 ve a boyfriend, girls at 17 with boy friend can go ahead with this äct. Pls confrot her now before she dêstroy her features.

Lol I dunno

I lost my virginity at 15 1/2 years old and I was thinking about how behind I was. Guys telling me that they had lost virginity at only 8 and girls talking about their sex lifes at only 13. So, it's common but, I think they lose their virginity cause everybody else talks about sex, they hear it on tv. They just want to fit in with everybody else so, they do what they can to fit in. Maybe, I'm wrong but, that's what I think.

It is definately disturbing, but it's 100% normal. Girls and boys are horney in their teen years, and girls can be biologically ready by then, so by natures standards yes lol By societys standards, nope.

I'd also like to add, you're her sister, don't tell on her. Not the best idea at all. It'll stress your parents out, it'll get her pissed at you, and this is all something that will mean nothing when you're adults. Seriously, I understand why you'd be upset, but don't betray her trust. It was a lame decision, just be there for her if she needs you, it's up to her what she does, but you could probably convice her to make better decisions in the future

it seems its common at the moment. i have a friend whose son received pics from girls. they where extremely bad.

but anyway. i had sex at 14 and i have regretted it. i seem to not be able to find the right guy and i think that all guys just want sex. only some guys could i ever see more. i had scares all tho time and my number of partners is high. at least i think so.

i would tell her to not even think about doing it again or you will tell your parents. its what i would do. =)

I'm not surprised by this, chances are she's talking complete bullshit because she thinks its "cool" to be having sex with people, however putting out when you're 14 years old seems wrong to me 14 is an age where you have the last few years to be a kid, tell your parents.

Normal? Depends where you live, but probably.

Acceptable? Quite possibly not, at least to her family, etc.

Good for her? Depends entirely on the girl, but if she's reasonably mature and it's all consensual and safe, it's not that big a deal.

If you tell/have told your parents,it will severely affect her confidence

Do you have any idea how young people are having sex? If fourteen year olds having sex is shocking to you, you'll have a heart attack when you find out what else they're up to.

Actually it is more normal that some of us would like to think. I remember back in the 80's, I was doing research on the teen pregnancy and found that the highest rate of child birth was in girls between the ages of 10 and 14. That was in the 80's, it is now 2012. What do you think?

Im from Denmark, average age here is 16, so yes, 14 is very normal, i was 14 too. But it can also be different from country to country, from person to person.

Let her do whatever she wants just make sure she don't get HIV

this has gone too far. it seems like every teen is having sex before they are actually ready (aka after they married :3)

I would do ur sis too!