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I am a 19 year old virgin guy who wants a virgin girlfriend. I don't really know if it is common for girls to be virgins past their 18th birthday or not.
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I'm about to be 19 and I'm also a virgin. I'm good looking I'd say, but I'm shy around girls and I don't get out much. My girlfriend is also a virgin, she's 16, and we plan on losing it together a few years from now (We're dweebs, I know). But yeah, it's normal, man.
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I'm 18 and still a virgin. Yes, I believe some girls can be 18 year old virgins, and even older than that.
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I want my girlfriend to be a virgin because I want us to lose it to each other. It would be much more special that way. It would be such a memorable experience for the both of us to share with each other. I am a Christian, but that is not the reason why I am a virgin and why I want to have a virgin gf. I want to just find that special someone. And no, I am not out for just sex. You only have your virginity once, and once it is gone, it is gone. It is almost like your childhood, once you grow up, you cannot go back in time. I value my virginity, unlike many other people. I am not trying to brag or anything. What I am trying to say is that my virginity is very important to me, so why can I not lose it the way I want to lose it? Does that sound crazy?
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There's nothing wrong with it, I was just wondering.

I think losing your virginity to someone who has had sex before can be just as special. If you do want it to be an important and special moment, I think what really matters is your connection to the person even if they're not a virgin. It is what you make it. That said: it's your life so do what you want. If it's something that matters to you, do what you feel you need to with it. If you feel it would feel more special to you if the girl was a virgin too, make it that way.
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nope. Its not crazy! I lost my virginty like a year ago and im 18 and its very common for 18 year olds to be virgins. =]
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Yeah. Of my female friends who are over 18 and I know well enough to have a good idea about whether they've had sex or not, I would say about half have not had sex.

What are your reasons for wanting a your future girlfriend to be a virgin?
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I am 18 and I am still a virgin , It is normal :)
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19 year old girl virgin here. Girls much older are also virgins.
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gummy_jr
How is this not normal?
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Yes its normal.
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Out of the thirty girls I have lived with for the past few weeks, only about one or two were virgins. I'm going to go off that and say it's not terribly common but not terribly uncommon either.
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Virginity sucks. Okay? You think that virgins are the best because of lame movies or porn or whatever. They're not. Men or women. I couldn't imagine trying to teach someone how to have sex these days. I thought that's what Sex Ed. was for, but apparently they just tell you that condoms are a lie, AIDS is malicious and it's going to get you, and abstinence is the only answer. Soon they'll be telling bitches to cut their clits off to avoid temptation.

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age, if that's what you want. But it doesn't give good sex. Never has. And by the way, if you're looking for a virginal girlfriend, you A) seriously need to re-evaluate your priorities and B) are never, ever, ever going to know. Most women have popped their cherry on a bicycle long before they get to thinking about sex, and plenty don't have one to begin with. Beyond that, you've got her word for it.

On that note, if you want your first time to suck less (it will still suck, and no, not in the fun way—everyone's first time sucks), watch porn. A lot of porn. Like, several terabytes' worth. I can barely stomach that shit, they all look like they're made of rotting meat and MPEG artifacts, but I get through it to learn bizarre and horrifying new sex moves and positions they don't cover in the holy bible of vanilla intercourse, the kama sutra. Just whatever you do, don't try and quote any of it. Unless your lady friend likes to laugh.
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thegypsysailor
What's the rush, dude? It'll come in it's own time and stressing about it won't hurry things along.
I would sincerely suggest, however, that you have your first experience with someone who is experienced. Sex, like everything else, takes practice and two virgins wouldn't have a whole lot of fun, IMO.
Just sayin'....
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Terence_the_viking
They are out there somewhere just get past all the filth and you will see.
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What a waste. Tomorrow a bus may run you over and you'd die a virgin.
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tommythecat
"Kill yourself and your family because they've poisoned you with mind syrip, making you forget how to use your penis."



-Tommy, king of all cats
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@dom180
Thanks for the feedback. Your from the US, right?
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I lost my virginity with my boyfriend a few months ago and I'm going to turn 21 very soon. It's not a common thing i think, and i've been criticized a lot for being a virgin at my age even if I find it very NORMAL. There was also that hansome guy that kept telling me things about it, just because he wanted to have sex with me. It was often more offensive than funny. I was very courted by men and I had the choice but I simply didn't care to loose it or not. I've been waiting for so long and I have no regrets when I think of all the happiness I have felt with my boyfriend. It was one of the best day in my life.
But don't get it into your head that you absolutely must find a virgin girl. You may miss some very loving girls. Don't make of it a very important criterion to find a girlfriend. There's so much more than that.
And if you want a virgin girlfriend to feel more comfortable about your first time, not having afraid of her laughing at you because it's your first time, know that not all of the girls are bitches.
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I lost my virginity on the eve of my 20th birthday. She had turned 20 four months before. We had done lots of stuff before that, but no intercourse.
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robbieforgotpw
I like taking powerdumps
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Virginity is overrated to me.
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Well now-a-days its not very common at all with all the "16 & Pregnant" & "Teen Mom" & all the encouragement from everywhere to have sex/lose your virginity but however even though its not normal or very common it is admirable
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Yeah I would say it's pretty normal. Most girls haven't lost their virginity before they're 18. It just seems that they have because sometimes girls lie about it or girls who sleep around get more of the attention. I myself lost it at 19. At first I thought I was too old but now I'm finding out that its pretty normal.
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Yes its normal. My wife was a virgin when we married. We now have four children; 3 girld and 1 boy. My middle daughter is 20and is a "daddy's girl." She's a virgin and has asked me and my wife the same question because her friends are pregnant and/or have kids. Don't ever give something as precious as your virginity to someone you don't love.
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It's normal I lost my virginity on my 20th bday, and my best friend is about to turn 20 and I doubt she plans on losing it anytime soon. And I have another friend that just turned 30 and she's still saving her virginity for marriage, that's not something I would want to do but I applaud her nonetheless.s
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All hung up on first time loosing it being "special" its all about the person your with an the momment your in when u lose it that makes it special not just your first time. My first time i thought was special but didnt compare to the time i had when i was with someone i truely loved.
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Girls that are virgins and 18, made it passed high school (the sex zone) like me. It is normal however it's normal to not be a virgin also.
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Atlantis
Nope, not normal if the girl's been dating.

Nothing wrong with it but in my experience it's very unusual.
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I lot my V 4 months before I turned 19 to my current boyfriend
He had had sex with people though which made it seem a little less special to me I guess. I'm jealous that he's had sex with so many people and he was my only one
I always wished I could be someone's first am they be my first but I feel in love with him so it didn't happen. I would still love to be a guys first though that would be such a turn on for me.
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I'm a 19 year old virgin, I want to wait until after marrige
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Its perfectly normal to be a virgin at 18... its also normal not to be. I lost mine to a german shepherd at 16.
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Jayendra
Check out my post 2 btw it's normal
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Being married before I lost my virginity,(I am male) I can tell you that I wanted the same for myself and for whom ever I found.
Well, we had sex after the wedding and everything I thought it would be turned out to be not the case. I figured that we would enjoy a big bang together, but it really didn't happen that way. We had sex maybe 4 times the first night, but I didn't get that "big bang feeling" and neither did she. (Although she lied and said she did at the time.) I later found out differently after I really knew how to satisfy her completely. I had to work at and I did even several times a day at first. My advise to you would be to get some professional training. (Someone that really knows what a women wants) I am not talking about the "corner hooker", I am talking about an expert, maybe a college prof. Good luck my friend....
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@: tripw7
There's no such thing as " getting some professional training ". All women are differents and no experienced guy could tell exactly what a woman like or want. It depends on the girls.
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