This is a long story kinda....just please give me some advice here. basically there is a girl who is really beautiful, and I feel that she is my type. She just broke up with a guy she was with for a very long time. I finally got up enough courage to talk to her, and things were going very smooth. We texted a lot at first and she seemed to be interested in me. if she wasn't interested in me at all I don't think she would have given me her number. She even indicated that to me. So the big moment came we were finally going to hang out, I took her to a nice bar where I go to college, and I tried my best to show her a good time. The problem is I was really drunk ,and I said a bunch of stupid things. For one I talked about myself non stop. I was also jealous when guys would look at her. I made several stupid comments as well. the next day she texted me..but from that day forward the text were few and far between. Today she finally told me that I wasn't her type and that she was sorry she lead me on..but that we were just opposite...and I said how? she basically said everything that I did wrong that night! I understood and I told her if she would just give me a second to talk to her about what happened we could go from there. I told her I was drunk, which was true, and that how i behaved wasn't really the guy I am or proud of. I felt like I didn't show her the guy i really was , and I wasn't humble. I told her if she would allow me to take her out one more time that I would show her who I really was. She agreed! with one caveat...that if I didn't change, she didn't want me to be mad if she didn't wanna take this any further. She also said she didn't want me to change who I was just because she didn't like it... And to be myself. Well ladies and gentlemen this is the moment of truth this weekend I will see her again possibly. I wanna be myself, and I don't want to say anything stupid, I just need help and advice. I suppose I wanna know 1. is it normal for a girl to give a guy a second chance...if she truly didn't wanna talk to you or give you a shot she wouldn't,but because her interest was peaked a little or in some way she felt compelled to say yes so she did? so she must not think i'm the worst guy haha 2. Is it normal to completely choke in front a girl and not act yourself because your trying to impress her or your nervous. and 3. she said I was trying to hard is that normal? should I keep it simple? what should I do about that..She doesn't require a lot and she's very independent. I need help because I really like this girl. finally I was in a 5 year relationship previously, and I've been out the game for a while...I think this had something to do with it. i know how to talk to women I just know every situation is different. I think she thinks i'm cute, and a nice guy ect..but she didn't wanna take a chance cuz she didn't feel like we would work. But I think she would like the guy that I am if she truly saw the real me and who I truly am(not while drunk). HELP!