I'm not condoning it at all, but the most exciting sex I've ever had was with a married woman. She was visiting family in the area alone without her husband. We wanted each other from the first moment our eyes met. She was attention-starved (like many married women are) and we pounced on each other like wild animals. We fucked non-stop for 8 weeks. It was pure bliss. Finally she got the courage to go off and deal with her failing marriage. When we both realized 4 months later that we were crazy in love with each other, she divorced her husband and we got married immediately afterward. Now her ex-husband is happily married and so are we. So again - not saying it's right to do, but affairs can sometimes work out for the best for everyone involved.
If she was getting what she needed from said husband she wouldn't be looking outside her marriage for sexual satisfaction. I had sex with the same married woman twice, the first time I didn't know. The second time was after I met her husband in a very awkward situation and realised how much of a cunt bucket he was.
I think if she is married you might want to watch out for her jealous husband. if he finds out and he is strong you might feel a lot of unwanted pain. Is this a problem what do you think?????
Is it normal? No, it isn't normal and might even be illegal in some parts of the world. Unfortunately, this is something that happens very very often. I would recommend that you try to put yourself in the shoes of the person who is being cheated on. It is a crappy place to be.
So why isn't this normal? Because you are violating the sanctity of her matrimony. Because at great risk for much repercussion such as attack from a violent husband, the risk of disease, the social stigma etc you ARE sleeping with a married woman. If you were fantasizing about her, I'd concede that it was fairly normal. If you were flirting with her, I'd say perhaps that was kinda sorta normal. Sleeping with her? No.
My suggestion, get your penis out of her, let her know how foolish you both have been as you go your separate directions and hope for the most minimal amount of Karma to come knocking.
I think it happens more then we think. I slept with A married man for about a year when I wasyounger And didn't think anything of it. Now that I am older I wouldn't do it. Nor am I saying it is morally right. But it happens.
I hooked up with a married woman myself. Like another poster said, it was the best sex I ever had. I met her through an online RPG we both played, and discovered she lived 45 minutes away. We got together for drinks, and it turned into a sexual relationship. She wasn't totally happy in her marriage, but had no intention of leaving her husband, and I didn't expect her to. It lasted for about 3 months, until she decided to recommit herself to her family. As far as I know, her husband never found out, and we still talk fairly often. I wouldn't change anything even if I could.
I enjoy it. Something about having another man's wife is a real turn on. Her hand wrapped around my cock with her wedding ring displayed. That's what I'm talking about. It's almost as good as watching my wife with another man.
It's certainly happened. When I was 29, I met a woman online who had a mutual friend with me and was married. We hit it off, talked on the phone a lot, and met up for a weekend of no strings attached sex. That was the only time we hooked up.
End of.
Affairers are cheaters, and cheaters aren't cool.
So why isn't this normal? Because you are violating the sanctity of her matrimony. Because at great risk for much repercussion such as attack from a violent husband, the risk of disease, the social stigma etc you ARE sleeping with a married woman. If you were fantasizing about her, I'd concede that it was fairly normal. If you were flirting with her, I'd say perhaps that was kinda sorta normal. Sleeping with her? No.
My suggestion, get your penis out of her, let her know how foolish you both have been as you go your separate directions and hope for the most minimal amount of Karma to come knocking.
best of luck to you!