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Is it normal for a married woman to date men with my husbands okay?
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We started with a very normal and conservative marriage. But our sex lives have evolved to what I will call kinky. Now my husband likes me to date other men and tell him about my experiences. At first it was very upsetting when I realized he really wanted me to go out with other guys. I thought it was the end of our marriage. But it became apparent he really wanted this and of course as a 40ish woman with the same man for half my life, I was turned on my the thought of having another man. We did it... the first date was a stranger I met in a club as my husband watched.... I dated this man several times and each time my husband couldn't wait for me to get home and tell him what happened... and each time we had the most incredible sex. I held out with this date, but as I got closer to intercourse, my husband and me got more turned on.... Finally I had intercourse... and even though I was so hot.. I was scared to tell my husband. To my surprise, I never saw him so turned on. He begged me to let this man cum inside me. I wanted it, but was scared. Well it finally happened and my husband almost just came hearing about it. He flipped me and ate me... but he was disappointed when I told him I showered after the act. But while he ate me.. I surprisingly found myself extremely hot, know that this date came in me and my husband was eating me. I was hot that my husband enjoyed it. I enjoyed it. Well, I did it again and this time I didn't shower. At first I felt dirty, but when my husband flipped me and I still could feel the cum of my date in me.... I got so hot. As my husband ate me... my orgasm was maybe the most intense I ever had.. I felt so drained. I couldn't believe he was eating another mans cum from me. I couldn't believe he liked it. And I really couldn't believe how much that turned me on. It was so dirty and nasty, but so exciting and hot. Well, that was a long time ago and now we still do this... I meet men... date them and when comfortable I let them cum in me... Sometimes my husband wants to fuck me the minute I come in and then cum in me too. Its very hot.... for me. Sometimes he eats the two cums out of me. Sometimes after he cums he loses the urge. But the sex is still great. Other than the first guy with did this with. We limit my new dates to no more two to five times after they cum in me... the we plan our next outing... the build up starts all over again. I have done this once with a married guy we are friends with and he (and none of the dates) knows my husband is aware. We have talked about a threesome so my husband could do it right there. I think that would be hot, cause sometimes I during the sex, I wish my husband could see this. But I am not sure if I really want him to. This is so hot and the sex is great... but I sometimes feel weird. I am a mother, a christian, and a member of the PTA, Soccer organization, and scouts... No one knows my hidden life. Am I normal? Is my husband normal?
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My husband and I have had more sex and more often since we began doing this. I agree you must proceed with caution. But it has been great and exciting for us and our marriage. If any of you woman contemplate this.. I can give you advice on how I meet the men. And again... this was entirely my husbands idea. But somehow... being able to reach into the cookie jar with approval was a good thing for me. I really find I have my cake and am eating it too.
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My wife dreams about doing this almost everytime we have sex or she has sex with herself, it really turns her on. I have told her many, many times to find someone that she would like to have sex with and go for it! Just tell me all about it as soon as you can, that would and will turn me on big time. I want her to and I also would like it if eventually we could turn it into a threesome and drive her crazy. I am gone enough that she has time to find someone to do it with. But, it hasn't happened yet. Still hoping!!
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Hey I will fuck her
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How do you find the right guy. Me and my husband have been married 21 years and have been talking about spicing up our sex life and giving it a try. Just not sure how to find the right guy.
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when we want to have extra sexual fun, we go out for an evening, if we meet a man I fancy, in most cases John engages him in conversation, if he accepts Johns invitetaion to join us then I flirt as much a I dare, if he is interested in me, we plan from there on, only on certain times do we engage in sex that night. in most cases it takes two/three or more meetings before we have a threesome. never do I have sex with the other man unless John is there. only one man and thats our long term sex threesome prtner Ron will I have sex without John being there. and thats only ith Johns approval. hope this is clear. Sally
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Sally1972 Thanks for the tip, that has been the only thing we were not sure of. We really want to give it a try. Thanks
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You really should have your husband present for one of your sessions with another man. Make sure the man you're having sex with isn't very deep when he ejaculates and then pulls out quickly so your husband can put his mouth on you. The semen will not have had a chance to mix with your juices and should flow into his mouth. The taste will be very different from what he's had before and if the guy cums alot is close to what it tastes like direct from the cock.
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as long as you are both happy with the decision they why not.
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Some will find it hot. Some wont. I don't care for the eating another man's cum part, but the rest is very hot and pretty common fantasy for us married guys. Normal, probably not, but erotic and fun for some of us, YES.
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i encouraged my wife to have sex with other men because it makes her feel more desirable. i could tell, after years of having just sex with me, my wife was feeling less desirable and less interested in having sex. we talked about it and my wife was very agreeable to dating a man for some no strings attached sex. she was worried, like most women, about how it would affect the marriage and how i would feel about her afterwards. i said the only way to find out is to do it and since it was my idea, it should not have any ill effects at all. my advice to her was to feel sexually available. men would see that and hit on her. i said a married woman usually sends the "unavailable" message whether she is aware of it or not. immediately upon adopting the mindset of being "available", my wife's interest in sex increased greatly and we started having sex every day. in less than two weeks men were hitting on her all the time and she finally chose one for a date. she was nervous, but had no intentions of not having sex with him. she said "i gonna get laid...period. i won't let him go home until we have had sex." she came home from that date just glowing. she was pert and bubbly as teenager when she came home. our oldest daughter was still up when she came and said "what got into you mom?" which made the two of us bust out laughing. we have been doing this for 15 years now. my wife counseled our daughter about sex and encouraged her to marry only a man with an open mind and explained how it would benefit her. she set that as a condition for a serious relationship. she is married now and said that they have decided she could date once she got pregnant. my daughter told me how much she respected how give her mom the freedom to explore her sexuality and said i was her hero. this works if both members of the marriage are willing to communicate, put the marriage bond first and be willing to trust the other person's dedication to the marriage.
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I wouldn't say it's normal but there is noting wrong with it as long as both of you enjoy it and it's OK with you.
On the other hand it is incredibly hot! I wish my wife was into sex enough to want to fuck other men. As it is she's not and as a result 9 years ago I started having sex with other men and at first a few women. I decided men were easier to have casual sex with so now I just have sex with men. Mostly I service other older (my age) married guys. I like cocksucking as much as fucking now.
I think if you love each other, anything that keeps you together is fine.
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I don't know if it's "normal," i.e., statistics, but it happens. My husband is SO turned on and our sex is enhanced if I have sex with another man. Of course, it must be TOTALLY safe sex unless/until very rigorous conditions are met. The absolute BEST sex is when I have sex with my current (other) lover who meets the conditions that allow him to cum in me.
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Your husbands gay as shit
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Open marriages work for some. I on the other hand couldn't do it. No matter how much my man would beg me to. I love my man and am fully attracted to him too much to even want another man. The thought utterly disgusts me honestly. And the thought of him with another woman...well let's just not go there lol.
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When my wife started dating "real men" it made our sex life great . Watching getting ready for date was such turn on . Then when she came home we too had awesome sex . And those cream pies were the best . It does work for some couples .
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If you are a Christian you should know if this is normal or right.
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Don't worry the Rapture is near.
I'm surprised the big guy in the sky has let it go on as long as he has.
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Jesus I just read this again and its even
more disgusting the second time. Are you fucking kidding me? Your really asking if either one of you is normal? No not by any means is this normal this is fucking morbid.
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being christian is morbid.
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I didn't read, it's simply too long. From the title it sounds kind of open marriage, some people are ok with that, others are totally against it. I can't say it's normal though.
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I'm in an open marriage right now, but I don't know how much it will evolve or how long we will keep it this way. I've only been with one guy and one woman since my husband and I decided this and even though I have encouraged him to have some fun as well, he hasn't. We're really only doing this because we're long distance right now, but we've also had swinging experiences prior to this decision.
I won't know if this is a wise move or an utter mistake until after the fact, and I'd say that if you and he are happy then it is normal and fine.
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How long after sex can you still take the other guy? My wife is going out on a date but wont be home for almost an hour after the sex...
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this is extra sex for enjoy life. don't left your poor husband. always you want his right support. i have also similar story. first i dated with co worker and i had sex regular basis. after i will tell all stories to my hus. he also very exciting and he can have good sex with me.
now i have 2 sex affair with others. also i have some close friends. iam enjoying very much. my husband have nothing problem for this. till now he didn't try to watch me. but he asking about this. i had great experience three of them same day. that is my memorable movements. one Sundays after the pub party i finished with first man then i going to home on the way i met my another friend and had sex in car. after reach home before shower had with my hus also. this is in best day of my life.
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I really want my wife to do that
Can anyone tell me how i can make her agree
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I'm a straight single male I heen with three couples, they were all for the wife's pleasure. The husbands just wanted their wife to be happy. These couples are still together and very happy.
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My wife and I enjoy an open marriage. She dates other men, sometimes I am there to watch her enjoy herself, other times she dates alone and when she gets home has to show me her pussy. We both love this relationship and have been into swinging/sharing for over 8 years, both in our 50's. She has had many men over those years. Most of the time she tells me beofre having sex with them, but other times it is spontaneous and will tell me when she gets home. She does not discriminate regarding color, nationality or age. And like one of the other posters on here our children know and think it is great we are so open. They hope they can find partners that are so open also.
When we swap with other couples or go to swing parties it is enjoyable also. One couple we know well and have swapped with many times has begun the hotwife sessions also and they are really getting into the wife having sex with other men often.
So for those that don't agree with this its fine its not for everyone.
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