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Is it normal for a mother to punish her son by spanking his testicles?
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Like many parents, I sometimes spank my child when he's been bad. But one time I had him over my knee and he was fidgeting around quite a bit, so when I went to spank his behind I actually smacked him right on his scrotum! He howled in pain and I was certainly shocked, but he thought I did it on purpose and swore he'd never break his sister's toys again. He's been really well behaved since and I'm sure it's because he thinks I'll spank him there again. So, seeing how effective it could be, is this a normal way for mothers to punish their sons?
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lol, anyone else seeing this boy into bondage sex in the future? preferably with mature women? lol
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Iremember my mother spanking me on the testicles only once. It was the last spanking that my behavior required. She used a small switch. I have grown chuldren so there was obviously no damage. You do not have to beat the testicles to be very effective.
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No way its NORMAL. But maybe it should be! I mean if its THAT effeective. Just imagine the look on their faces when us moms give them that look!! Precious balls just dangling their and ready to be spanked. It would work alot better than me struggling to keep him still and stuff
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Yes, it should be normal. Although one has to remember that it has to be administered carefully in order not to cause a damage. But besides that it is something that every mother of a boy should take into consideration.

I know what I´m talking about: When I was due for a spanking and I was standing stark naked in front of my mother, she scolded me and told me why I was going to be spanked and then every now and then gave me a sharp slap in the nuts with the back of her hand before she sent me off to fetch the cane or the strap.

I was horribly painful and I jump like three feet high, squealed, howled and hopped through the room with my testicles bouncing fiercely since I had to keep my hands on my back. It must have been a funny sight for the women or girls (my sisters, their friends or my mother´s friends)that were usually present.

But it was only one slap with the hand. I think five with the ruler would have been a suitable and effective punishment for me.

Well, for me it´s too late but for today´s boys it should be normal. It helps them a lot to understand who wears the trousers.
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Well, my mother first slapped my balls and then sent me to bring her my sister´s riding crop. And you bet I know who wears the trousers.
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Fuck you!!!!!!! If you got the balls i want to meet you and show you who wears them you fucking maggot infested cunt.meet me at the mickey ds on pleasant st and lets fight.be there at midnite if you got thr balls.
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I agree with mothers punishing there boys balls, I used to get my balls whipped when I was bad by mom or my aunt till I was 18. got my balls whipped good when I was 14 by my aunt when she caught me masturbating. I can still hear her saying your going to get neutered
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I had to vote no. I'm NOT saying it's not effective but those type of punishments can carry SERIOUS psychological ramifications. I'm 63 & can WELL remember the 'special punishments' for us kids(mostly boys) back then when we were caught masturbating.
Back in 60' my mother caught me masturbating & I ended up getting yanked out of bed, rudely escorted to the bathroom & received several HARD swats to my penis(glans) with the back of a hairbrush.
She again rudely escorted me back to my bed & told me if I ever did it again I'd "really get it." Yeah, it stopped me from performing the act(for quite a while) but the penis paddling also gave me some psychological issues that showed up later on as a young man.
Back then a lot of the parents punished the part of the kids body that committed the transgression... soap in mouth for back talking etc. Our genitals were "ONLY" punished if we were caught masturbating. Spanking your sons testicles has nothing to do with breaking his sisters toys!
Don't spank his genitals(believe me on this one!), there's other ways to administer discipline, & I don't mean crude physical methods of discipline(violence). The days of the crude & barbaric spankings/strapping's, castor oiling's & genital punishments are loooong gone... thank Christ! Your child is an investment, let him know that by not violating his most private & sacred area... EVER!
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@: IB4U
if i could vote u up more i would
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i am 70 years old. I had 2 sons and lost my husband when they were 5 and 7 old.had to disciplane them, but i never did hurt them. When disobeyed i used to call my mother (their grandmother) to come to my home and do the punishment together. she would undress them and just two spanks on their bottom and send them to their room naked so they won't go out that day. It worked well and they were never hurt. 40 years ago most moms did this to their sons
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I think. More mothers should do this. The point is to discourage bad behavior. A swat on his testicles can be a very effective method indeed.
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Absolutely true. I wish my mother did it, too. It would have been an appropriate punishment for me every now and then.
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is he 35?
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@: devilla
No, he just turned 9.
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darthrule
Meh.. It's fine
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My maternal grandmother used to do this to me. She was a harsh woman who felt boys were unruly by nature and needed different means of discipline. One day she caught me trying to make a miniature "campfire" out of wooden stick matches on the kitchen floor. She yelled, "You'd burn the house down! Then where do you think you'd live?" Then she ordered me to sit down on the living room sofa. She came in and took off my pants and underwear and laid me down on my back. I got spanked in the diaper position anyway, so that seemed usual. She raised my legs and I could feel her holding my privates. Then with a steel ruler [my father still has it] she gave me 3 quick whacks on the testicles. I instantly curled up in the fetal position, screaming. I went on sobbing uncontrollably. [I was usually on my side by then.] This went on for maybe half an hour, to where I was wimpering like an infant. I was usually sent to bed when I got spanked, and basically grounded for the rest of the day. But in this case I had no desire to get up or go anywhere. In a few quick seconds I was basically out of commission for the rest of the day. If any of my siblings or cousins saw me and wondered what was going on, she'd yell, "Leave him alone! He's being punished."
Another time she caught me in the bathroom, dangling kleenex over a lit scented candle. It lit and I dropped it on the floor where it burned. It was a tile floor, but she was not amused. "You'll burn the house down! You need your balls balls smacked again." So she took me into the living room, where I was already crying and pretty much hysterical, since by this time I knew the procedure. As soon as she could get me stripped she had me on my back, legs up, and maybe 4 quick whacks on the testicles with that steel ruler. Once again I was curled up in a ball, screaming and blubbering for who knows how long. The pain just consumed my body. When I was spanked on my butt it always seemed like I could do something to reduce the pain. Lie this way or that way, or on my stomach. But when I got spanked on my testicles it was all pain. All I could do was lie there and bawl like a baby.
I have no idea why I did some of the stupid things I did as a kid. Yet another time, when I was supposed to be taking a bath, she opened the door to find me walking around on the rim of the bathtub. [I had broken one of the louvres in the window.] I was grabbed, naked, and led to my bedroom. I lay on the bed noisily crying while she went to the kitchen to get that ruler. I think I was too inconsolable to put up a fight that time. I got spanked on the testicles again, curled up in the fetal position, screaming as usual. She put the covers on me, shut off the lights, and closed the door. To this day if I get even bumped on the testicles I get intensely nauseated and feel like I'm going to vomit. I don't at all recommend the procedure. It was way too painful, and affected me for days. I guess the practice was common in southern IN where she grew up.
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Thanks for the comment dommom16. My son has given me several unforgettable looks when I tell him I'm going to give him another ball spanking. But of course at his age they don't dangle down yet, which is good because a nice tight little scrotum makes a wonderful target. And when you only need to give him one good smack you don't have to hold him for long!
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If I saw this to my child I would punch you in your fucking face, go rot in hell!
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Fuck you asshole!#!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im going to kill you.i know right whete you live you fucking maggot
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Yes they are a good target now but Just think of how much fun your going to have once is balls drop into his scrotum, you'll be giving your son more then one smack on his balls... Remember your house your rules and that means his balls are yours to do as you please with. There should be no limits what Punishment a mom and do to there sons balls
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Congrats, that is sexual abuse. Imagine if every time a little girl broke a toy her dad smacked her in the vag? CPS would be all over that and there would be public outrage. But a sexist mother like you just proves that you should need to pass a test to be a parent. If I EVER saw ANYONE doing that to my kid, I'd break their arms.
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@: WB17
You, are amazing seriously show that bitch down she is such a sexual abuser.
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It is normal. Today i have over 50, but in my teen years my father used to do this to me. At 13 I was caught masturbating in bed by mom. She was totaly mad, and grab me by hair, yanked me from bed totally naked, pulling me over backyard to barn where is my father repair machine. I have to lay on floor on my back, they spread my legs wide tied it at floor ankles. Mom hold my hands and father pull out his pants belt and start smashing my genitals. I was screaming, crying but smashing continues with no mercy. After tens of smashing despite the terrible pain, my penis stiffen and in one moment jumped over to my stomach, leave testicles undefended. When the father saw that he turned his belt and smash my testicles with a metal buckle counting exactly 13 times. I twitched in terrible pain but I was then released and ordered to tie off myself and give me 5 minutes for return in bed. I did it, writhing in pain. During next seven years they caught me masturbating several times and apply the same punishment procedure on me, tie my legs, holding hands and beating the genitals, especially testicles. The worst was when I was already older. In the last few years the father was using the metal rod and grabbed my testicles with one hand he hammered on it more than thirty times. Almost every time I passed out from the excruciating pain. A few weeks after that my testicles were still badly swollen almost double the size of the normal and very sore. During that time I had to wear very tight pants even when go to sleep. That made the pain increased and constant. With 20 years I have moved away from parents and started my own family. I have two sons, therefore, punching the testicles did not affect fertility. But a year ago I was diagnosed with testicular cancer and they were removed.

So, the testicles spanking is OK, but very moderately.
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@: witchie
Witchie, this was really rough

Testical spanking is something that happens - over the years I have seen enough references to cases in mainstream, non-fetish publications and newspapers to know it goes on, and back in my schooldays I knew one boy who was frequently punished this way. In western countries it will now be considered abusive, but we also know that cases labelled "child cruelty" or similar are the tiny tip of a large iceberg. It may well be more 'normal' in some ethnic communities.

My impression that this may vary from a single slap, painful enough but undoubtedly effective, to cases when the boy is held or strapped or tied down and spanked or hit with a strap or similar several times - undoubtedly agonisingly painful. The boy I knew at school would be undressed and held down by his father and elder sister while his mother would spank him several times with her hand, hard and aiming deliberately at his testicles and causing him awful pain. I have no reason to believe he would lie about it, especially as he felt humiliated and ashamed and very few of us knew.

Testicles are tougher than people think, even though any blow is sickeningly painful, so in moderation it doesn't carry the risks some people claim. Ball punishment is not unusual in the bdsm world. It takes a really hard blow to rupture a testicle, most often when a kick or knee traps the testicle against the pubic bone, or a cane may be dangerous as the force is concentrated across a narrow area and can split the testicle. Other risks are that a blood vessel may break and bleed into the scrotum, or that the soft scrotum istelf can be cut or split. One report I saw a long time ago was of cases brought into hospital emergency, including a teenage boy with a split scrotum. His aunt had tied him to a wire netting fence and beaten him with a belt, and the edge of the strap had caused the damage. He had been tied with his legs wide apart and it seemed from the account that the boy's testicles had been a deliberate target. These days the police would have been called in and all kinds of proceedings taken and the aunt probably would end up in prison.

What can be said is that testicle spanking in moderation is not going to cause this kind of damage, is not going to make the boy sterile (a regular myth that has already appeared in this forum) and is not going to cause cancer. Medical opinion is quite clear these days that neither testicular cancer, nor breast cancer, are caused by past blows to the parts concerned. Witchie, I am really sorry to see that you have lost yout testicles to testicular cancer, but I notice you do not blame your parents for this, nor should you.

Witchie, I think most would agree that your father went well beyond what was sensible or acceptable. These days, most people would say, rightly or wrongly, that punishment for masturbation is wrong, but these were earlier times. However it is clear that he really intended to cause you terrible pain, and when they kept you in tight pants afterwards, this was inventive but confirms their cruelty. But to use the buckle end of the belt was more than sadistic, it really did risk the sort of damage I have described and in that sense you were lucky not to be injured. Was your father actually the person who decided you should get hard testical punishment? Again, from what I have read, women are the more likely to impose this.

So is testical spanking normal? Surely not. It seems to have been occasional in the past, when there was much less interference in family discipline, and it may well be that since blows to the balls, especially from women, are now regularly featured in films, wresting and television programmes, and treated as comedy, that younger mothers are picking this up and using it as an effective punishment. It might even be recommended in moderation, as even Witchie writes, but in countries with enforced child protection and a belief that they should control or even stop domestic punishment, it is going to be viewed as illegal.

Witchie, thank you for telling us of your experiences.
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I don´t know if it´s normal in general, but it was normal in our family. For showing any kind of disrespect towards women or girls, or fighting or arguing with my one of my sister my mother slapped my balls. I had to undress completely, expose my balls and then she gave me between 3 and 10 slaps with a spatula, a wooden ruler or a cooking spoon. I don´t think it was abuse it just taught me respect though it was terribly hurtful and embarrassing. Additionally it didn´t cause any long term damages, though I was punished that way quite often. But of course more often she spanked my naked butt and thighs with a riding crop.
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@: Jean71
I think it´s good if a mother spanks her son often, this should also include ball spankings. You must have been lucky for having such a strict Mom. How often did she spank your balls and how often your butt? I hope quite often.
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I don´t think that I was lucky. It was very hurtful and humiliating too, because my sisters kept on taunting and teasing me about it. But I must admit that I mostly deserved it.

On average I got my sack slapped by Mom about 3-5 times a week. She spanked my naked butt and thighs approximately 5-10 times a week. Sometimes I got it more than once a day. Even small misbehaviors or offenses from my side led to a spanking. My sisters never ever got spanked.
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no, and when he groWs HE IS GOING TO THINK YOU ABUSED HIM SEXUAL WHEN HE GETS FLASHBACKS OF YOU TOUCHING HIS BALLS!
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I'm not "touching" his balls. I'm using his boy parts to punish him. He fully understands why I do it and he knows that when he's been bad he can expect a couple of good smacks right on his testicles. He is a little embarrassed by the whole thing, but I think that's part of the punishment.
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As a guy, I think it is terrible to hit any child in the genitals period. If you hit a boy in the testicles you can damage his reproductive ability for the rest of his life. It is torcher to do this. I do believe in spanking kids perhaps teenagers if they act like 2yr olds. Teens should be all through most of the spankings. I do not believe in bare bottom spanking at all especially teenagers. It is not right for a father to spank his teenage daughter naked, or mother to spank her teenage son naked. They shouldnt even be seeing them naked period. It is sexual abuse to spank teenagers naked.
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u deserve be spanked at your ovaries. U fuckin freak mother u are. U STUPID. u deserve be kicked in cunt
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NO. And u can blame yourself if he gives you 0 grandchildren.
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I don't think you realize just how effective it is. After he didn't clean his room like I told him to for probably the fifth time I gave him another little smack on his boy parts and he immediately went straight to work cleaning up. It's not like he's going to end up sterile. It's just a little spank on his balls.
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Do your son a favor and call CPS. That's abuse. I'm so glad you aren't the mother of my boys.
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@: eliz4
Well, all little boys misbehave and maybe your boys would straighten up as quick as my son if you gave them a smack right on their little balls. It's not abuse, it's just good discipline.
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Go rot in hell now, those poor little children, just spank them on their butt not their fucking balls, you make me sick, you shouldn't be doing this, children are a gift from god, and I'm not against spanking, but you should just spank on the butt and please, never ever strip a child, that is totally sexual abuse to a child, and you don't want your child remembering you as the parent that whipped my fucking balls, I mean really they're balls and they're little kids, they're defenseless, and never use any object to hit a child, just hands and please don't hit balls because if you do it often, your child will never have a child and will probably get testicular cancer, so shut the hell up and burn in hell, your children deserve better than a child abuser. Go fuck yourself, seriously.
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Anyone who hits their childrens privates is a sick twisted fucking maggot.if i could get my fucking hands on you miserable pieces of human garbage i would sliceyou into a million pieces.god i wish i could get my fucking hands on you asshole cunts.i say kill all woman as
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Fuck you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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It might be ok if you do not want to ever have grandchildren. Then also think would you have wanted any one to that to you? You also might think he might want to be able to have children. You can realy hurt him for life, might not never be able to get a hard on... What a waste of a mens penis.
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And it's the regular myth posted again. The sorts of spankings being discussed here are not going to make anyone infertile. In my long reply to Witchie, posted above, I mention injuries that can result, and undoubtedly testicles are more delicate than buttocks and would be damaged by the sort of hard caning that can be applied to buttocks.

But experience in the bdsm community, with relatively hard ball spankings being given to adults by professional dommes and other female dominants, and also by gay male dominants, is that this is reasonably safe pain play. Now boys are not consenting masochists and should not be subject to the same treatment, in my view not the sort that Witchie suffered, but medical concerns are not serious if care is taken.

If not precluded by law, testicle spanking is an effective and severe punishment, with little effort needed to cause severe and sickening pain that the boy will well remember. Undoubtedly some parents (usually women?) have applied such punishment ruthlessly in the past, and probably it still happens, as well the more common application of a single or very few slaps. Some will consider that the pain and humiliation together teach the boy exactly the lesson required. Others will disagree, and the psychological results of regular hard beatings must also be considered.

But in moderation, the issues are legal and ethical, not medical.
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@: xkenan
You deserve to die toofor putting these kinds of posts.people are going to think its ok!!! Are you a fucki g idiot stop saying its ok to do this.id lime to cut your fucking balls off and shove them dpwn your maggot throat.go to hell
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LOLZ!
Super-effective. They always say to punish kids by taking/hurting their favorite toy.
Well, in a boy's case that's his meat 'n' two veg innit?
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Hi my name is scott I am 16 I still get bare bum spanking but occasinly my dad think I need something more painful and that when I know I have really been bad because thing is when he tell me to lie on my back in the diper possiton he will the spank my bum with a paddel then he will give me a few spank on the penis and a few spank on the testicl and that really make me swear not to do the bad thing I did again so it not a bad thing although it does hurt like helll to say the lleast
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obvious troll is obvious
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I had a friend around 12ish, who was a big dumb guy. Not fat, but 'meaty'. Football player type. He told me one day, after being punished that his balls hurt. It was a long dumb conversation, and I mostly dismissed it, and we went on to whatever else we did that day.

3 weeks later or so, he showed up at my house late. he said he got punished for something, and he was in pain. We went up to my room to play video games, and he was complaining the whole time. again he said his balls were killing him. I said why, and he said cause his mom spanked him on his ass and balls.

AFter trying to make him drop it, he said it fells really bad this time, but he coudn't see where it hurt. He nicely asked me to look to see if it was bleeding, etc. to make a long story short, I finally gave in to look for him. I assumred him my parents weren't home, and we were alone, so he pulled his pants down.

Right away I saw his bright red ass. OUch I said. He was like ya but my balls. So with another 5 minutes of complaining, I gave in and let him show me his balls. He layed on his back on my bead with with his legs spread in the air. He had the biggest set of balls I think I've ever seen, then and still to this day. he seems fine, and they weren't red like his ass, but he said to look underneath his balls. They hurt underneath. He pulled his own balls up gingerly, and sure enough they looked black and blue.

I told him what I saw, and now I was curious. I said Dude wtf. how did this happen? He used to get spanked almost monthly (thats another story) and I said why this now? He didn't know. Long story short again, I finally asked him to show me how he was when she spanked him. His mom used a wiffle ball bat, as he was so big her hand hurt her more. He said she now makes him lean over the arm of the couch.

I had him demostrate, and I immediately say the issue. His balls were squished out backward between his legs when He was leaned after the couch arm. I told him what I saw, and I remember how I told him. I was so delecate at that age and said, 'dude your fat ass fn balls are sticking out your fat ass when you bend over like that" hahah.
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Anyone who touchs their sons privates is committing illegal and unforgivable abuse.if i saw anyone doing this,i would not care what happened to me,i woulf take yhat person,tie them down and beat their privates til they were dead.you people are a bunch of cocksucking motherfucking stupifd shithead assholes and i pray you allburn in hell for eternity.assholes!!!!!!#!!#
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I once created a poll asking if mothers should punish their boys by spanking their balls. Almost all of those men who experienced this kind of punishment from their mothers when they were boys supported this kind of punishment. A vast majority of women supported the idea too. Only men without experience in this realm opposed it.
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@: Jean71
are only sexual fantasies...
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@: Jean71
all false...
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Some may be just fake or fantasies, but not all of them. My mother in fact slapped my balls frequently. So it really happened. She also spanked my bare butt more or less daily, while my sisters, who never got spanked, kept on teasing me about it. But in retrospect I´m by no means mad at her. I think she did the right thing.
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@: Jean71
bull. Regarding your question about genital hits when spanking. Bad idea, very bad idea. My mother frequently spanked me with a belt, especially if she had a bad day. She had a very narrow leather belt that she was especially fond of and it hurt like heck and would feel as if it cut. And most of the time on my pajamas but also on my bare body coming out of the tub. She would swing the belt and hit me on the back, butt, legs, from the back between the legs and that would give a real painful whack from the tip on me "down there". When it hit me "there" (on the scrotum) (and sometimes on the penis) the pain was a hundred times worse and doubled me over in pain. Once I screamed so ghastly I did not even recognize the sound that came from me. But she would just hold my arm up and keep swinging.
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I have wondered why she did this because sometimes it seemed the spankings were more for her than for me. A real sick person? The house would be good but she always found fault.
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Now, I am grown, the neat thing about being grown is she can't hurt me. Left home at 17 went into the Army. My kids are grown and while they were children only saw her a few times in their lives. She sits in a nursing home now with Parkinson's all alone. Yes, it is a hellish existence. Perhaps in preparation to what awaits her on the other side. She will not, no matter how many times she asks, come live with me. She made me who I am today.
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So, yes, it does hurt a lot more. But, please be a "parent" not an "abuser". Your children are not there for your anger relief or for your sexual amusement. If you need help with anger issues or if you need help with sex issues get the darn help and do not abuse your kids!!!. In most places treatment is free if you really need it and can not afford it. Back in the 1960's when this went on there were no child protective services. At least no one to help me in Texas.
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Remember, one day your boys will be grown. They will be what you taught them. You might need them.
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@: Jean71
I agree with mothers punishing there boys balls, I used to get my balls whipped when I was bad by mom or my aunt till I was 18. got my balls whipped good when I was 14 by my aunt when she caught me masturbating. I can still hear her saying your going to get neutered :)
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I never got spanked for masturbating, because my Mom thought it was absolutely ok for a boy to masturbate. But I always got spanked for acting disrespectful to women or girls.
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Okay. Some adult men and some boys in puberty love ballbusting (as nice sexual punishment, etc.). Gentle slaps or gentle squeezing balls and penis, from beautiful sexy women, - this is a very sexy dream for some men and boys.

Okay, but for this must be consent. Every man and boy must voluntarily agree to this practice.

If he disagrees, - this practice is abuse.
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