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Is it normal for "extremely good-looking" people to be hated on?
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I ask you not to judge my story.
I am not stuck up or big headed, I promise.
I'm a observer. I just need to know if what I'm observing is correct...or normal?

I have been told that I am a very gorgeous girl by many people (many of those people fail to realize how much better my personality is.)
I think that I am decent looking. I have naturally long blonde hair and blue eyes. I am skinny yet I posess D cup boobs and a nice butt.
People assume that I am a fake barbie doll. I don't dye my hair, wear contacts, and I defiantly don't have implants. People are rude to me, girls are mean to me, even guys can be mean to me. They assume I am a stuck up b*tch when they first "see me."
(But yes, most of the guys are just perverted pigs to me.)
When I enter a room everyone just stares at me. (I know I sound extremely stuck up there, but it's the truth.)
Complete strangers give me glares as if I had said something completely rude to them.

Even my boyfriend has noticed. He told me that he felt sorry for me because of all the attention I get.

I just want people to see me for ME. Not some blonde haired girl with big boobs. I'm extremely giving, and good hearted. I am very down to earth and smart. Not what anyone thinks of me, initially.

I don't know if this is normal or not but it's beginning to drive me nuts. People will argue saying that "ugly" (no one is truly ugly for the record. Only if their personality is terrible...)people are the victims. Has anyone ever noticed how "beautiful" people get treated? I'm not talking about the cat calls and hitting on.
I'm talking about the rudness and name calling to a complete stranger. "She's ugly and looks like a w****."

I don't dress like a w**** for the record.

Ah. I don't know. Is this normal? Somewhat?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (16)
Dammitkortni (26037)
2009-07-24 20:18:30
Yes, it's very normal. It's called jealousy.
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Wavesandsun18 (26039)
2009-07-25 09:48:15
I feel for you, I am in the same situation it is normal. I am 5'9 skinny huge blue eyes and golden hair and nice assets haha, but every where I go i'm judged by the fact I'm a model. My self concience friends now hate me to it so I agree with you compleatly people judge beautiful women before they get to know them
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Mikeyburger1 (25905)
2009-07-25 10:44:46
I personally Go for personality rarther than looks :P
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hotchickie81 (24721)
2009-07-25 15:47:47
I know how you feel. Well, I'm certainly not "perfect," but there are girls at work who hate me because they're jealous. They were really mad when they found out my hair is real (not fake like their's). So yeah, I feel your pain!
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jazzy88 (22112)
2009-07-28 12:23:17
bullies are just insucure about themselves so they try thier best to belilte other people you sound like a beatuiful and wonderful person so you should not let those awful people get to you there just jealous. i have a snoty ugly arogant cousin who is said to be jealous of me. some people say i'm pretty weather or not people find me at pretty or not is stickly their opion. however i have brown hair brown eyes b cup boobs and olive skin. i'm naturally thin.
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AngelOfDeath (26859)
2009-08-09 09:25:10
reading this, an obvious point comes to mind. you should be with me, because wed always be in the bedroom, noone would have a chance to stare ;) na oj. well a lil bit. people are just jealous you gotta somehow ignore it, and if its really bad go out with someone extremely ugly, then people would look at you like our a saint for helping the needy
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psycstudent (24545)
2009-09-22 05:25:48
I agree, I am sick of blonde jokes, and the assumptions some people make about good looking people, those idiots are just jealous, forget them. Good looking people are accused of being shallow when in reality they are no different to everyone else, some are shallow, some are smart etc. You can't judge a book by its cover
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Argollun (28826)
2009-09-22 12:36:46
People are mean and they don't like to feel inferior to others, by what you say, it sounds as if you make people feel inferior by just being you. Look for people who won't be swayed either way and try to be their friends. You'll probably have to go the extra mile in order to show that you're different and not like the self absorbed pretty people, that will mean putting up with unfair treatment by being patient and going out of your way to show that you care. Some people will still hate you but a lot of people will notice and respect you for it.
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Zombie_girl08 (28869)
2009-09-23 08:54:09
Knowing from experience..it's normal and tiring.
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curiouskiddo (28449)
2009-09-25 07:00:32
omg, this happens to me too!! I thought I was the only one :(this made me feel a lot better :)thanks for posting it haha!
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jahndrea (29859)
2009-10-15 15:29:45
i don't know from experience because i'm average looking, but i do have very attractive friends and some rather homely as well, so i could tell you from this perspective, that i'm sorry but that is really just how the cookie crumbles, people have a sense of justice and fairness in them, and they don't think its "fair" for you to be so beautiful, so they try to even it out by delivering their own twisted kind of justice, just keep in mind that everybody has their own obstacles in life, and this problem is yours, so try to keep your dignity while dealing with
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maya617 (30062)
2009-10-21 05:32:47
i find it strange cause my brother's gf is beautiful, blond, very thin and with big fake boobs and in her case its just the opposite. she is more popular and cannot walk down the street without guys staring at her and wanting her.the males put the moves on her all the time. i remember when i first met her i thought she was a stuck up bitch but now i got to know her well, and she's ok.
i got to admit that i do feel jelouse of her all the time, i can't help it, but i guess thats human nature.
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DrQuinnMedicineWoman (30905)
2009-11-07 16:51:21
I feel bad for you. and your story makes me want to check myself the next time i assume someone is fake and start judging her.
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Janith (30941)
2009-11-07 19:22:49
I get it too. It's why I don't tell people how many guys try to talk to me on a daily basis. I don't want the drama.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-11-07 19:44:59
Jealous of your looks and presentation - which no doubt you have learned to play to the hilt. So I am not sure what to say. There is a nasty competitiveness in your generation. But you are part of it too. But I guess no one will envy your spelling: "I defiantly don't have implants." Has anyone, in your group, heard of the word "humility?"
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