There is nothing less suspicious then not knowing at all about the other person, being "friends" with someone is what always raise suspicions. She have the right to know, and she knows, he did tell her about the friend, going beyond that is just snooping around, and that leaves no privacy for a person. He is offended not because he is hiding something, if he was hiding something, she wouldn't know about it, and he isn't immature, he just doesn't like it when she force herself on him like that, no guy in the world likes it. What control are you talking about? if he wanted to cheat, nothing short of a gun would help her control it, relationship should be based on trust. And if a girl keep going about her "RIGHTS" in the relationship, pretty soon she will have the right to piss off.
That whole comment proves you have no idea what you're talking about. You just spout the same bullshit that has generated relationships and marriage into the shit it is today. All the fucking divorces and backstabbing, because no ones got the right to ask questions or recieve an honest answer because some jumped up emotional retard will label you "posessive" or "controling" It's almost become some sort of pathetic pop culture nonsense. And yes if someone wants to be with you and take up your time you have rights, you may trust him but she certainly has the right not to trust other women and to know who they are if they're in his life. And above all else why would someone be stupid enough to have a problem with you asking them that.
My girlfriends wanted to know who the girls i hung out with were and i didn't get upset, it didn't bother me at all, same as when i asked it didn't bother them, but then again why would it.
I might not have been married yet, but my current relationship lasting over 4 and a half years, almost 5, not a single affair, and going great, so I have some idea what I'm talking about. Your profile picture shows that you are a girl, but you say you had girlfriends, so I'm not sure if you're a guy or a lesbian, either way, it doesn't sound like you know what you are talking about. Nothing wrong with asking question, but believe me, I know how a jelous woman "asks questions". All in all, it doesn't matter if she trusts other women or not, they wont rape him. It doesn't sound like he had a problem with her asking, he didn't liked it when she decided to forcefully butted in, adding the girl she doesn't even know, as if to say "I'm watching you". A man will cheat if he is unhappy with his current relationship, and behind help on a leash, under constant supervision is something that will make a man unhappy.
P.S. Using foul language doesn't make your point of view more valid, and it doesn't make you seem like a more mature person.
"I know how a jelous woman asks questions". - Not really you are but one person, not every woman.
If you are female, then you have no idea what im talking about when it comes to HOW some men go about cheating, some are way smarter and trickier than you know (hence your lack of understanding as to why he'd introduce a girl he might sleep with).
"as if to say I'm watching you" - thats quite a paranoid assumption
Being in a long lasting, good relationship doesn't give you knowledge on that kind of issue at all, infact it makes it less likely that you have dealt with these problems before.
P.s using foul language is appropriate when speaking to idiots, who over dramatize a girls very common and understandable actions.
I'm not a big fan of Hollywood, so I have no idea who is Christina Ricci or how she looks like. I'm a man, and I do know how men are cheating. You said it right, you're a male, not a man, you don't sound old enough to be one (regardless of your actual age). If you say that my assumption is quite paranoid, then you don't understand what is a jelous woman. Being in a long lasting relationship gives me knowledge about how a relationship can work, and believe me when I tell you that we dealt with those, and much bigger problems, yet we still made it this far.
I'm not over-dramatizing anything, I just say it like it is. You are right, those are very common and understandable actions, so is a breakup or divorce.
And if speaking to an idiot would justify foul language, I should be talking like a sailor when conversing with you.
English is not my native language, so yes, I do make grammatical mistakes every once in a while. And the fact that you believe that it somehow makes you smarter only proves my point. As someone who was born and raised in an English speaking country, I'm sure your grammar is superior to mine, yet at the same time you have the common sense of a pissed off teenager. BTW, "And you think im dumb..." should be spelled with I'm instead of im, and in the end it should say "You ARE fucking illiterate", or "You ARE A fucking illiterate.", both can work. Now why don't you show me how smart and mature you are by showing me all the other curse words you learned in school?
PS. From your other posts I see you had quite a few rocky relationships, sounds like you don't know how to keep a woman, and that is why you're not a man.
No actually it's perfectly correct to say "you illiterate"
And if it's not your native language then why didn't you say, as i wouldn't have spoken to you in the first place. No way am i being told anything by a fucking immigrant.
Unless you're native american, you're an immigrant, me, I'm not from America. But once again, you have proven your ignorance on the matter, by touching subjects which are completely irrelevant to the issue. Honestly, more and more I get the feeling that I'm talking with a know-it-all kid. I'll tell you what, when you'll learn how to keep a woman, talk to me, you might've had many rocky relationships, but if you still can't keep one, you learned nothing from them, I'll give you a tip, every relationship gets rocky at some point, that's the real test, its always easy when things are fresh and there is a lot of passion.
PS. Third grade grammar lesson. A sentence must have a verb, therefore you can't say "you illiterate", you must say "you are an illiterate", the "are" serves as the verb. If you don't believe me, ask an English teacher.
Unless you're native american, you're an immigrant, me, I'm not from America. WTF it's not irrelevant. If it's not your native tounge and you speak of jealousy but can't spell it, then don't argue about it lol.
example, a web page i found at random- pinterest.com/ooelioo/educate-yourself-you-illiterate
I can't believe you are actually that stupid. What does the ability to spell have to do with understanding a relationship between a man and a woman? I'm not from Mexico (when you spell a name of a country, the first letter should be capital one), I'm originally from Ukraine, grew up and live in Israel (that's your chance to make a Jew joke), Hebrew is my second language, and through Hebrew I learned English, yet I still do less grammatical mistakes then you, so I think I'm doing alright. Just out of curiosity, how many languages do you speak fluently?
U are absolutely right tommy. I agree more with u than nightmare, though I can understand his opinion on it too. But yeah, Tommy I think u know what's up
I know because i've been in these situations more than most. I've had many (not a couple, not one) but quite a few rocky relationships, and learnt from them. You don't learn from relationships where you get things right, you learn from your failings (just like anything in life). The right balance of possessiveness is good, it shows you care, and makes the other person feel wanted and important. People who confuse "Possession" of your man with "control" are immature and evidently inexperienced. If someones hitting on your wife you don't just sit there, you make them hit the bricks! It's the law of nature and love.
Don't ever let someone tell you not to ask questions or stand up for yourself. Because someone who loves you will completely understand that they must mean something to you or you wouldn't ask in the first place.
Yes tommy u are right. I just had a talk with my bf and he understands more of where I'm coming from and I showed him this thread. He also told me more of what the bitch said about me when I added her. She said "does your girlfriend have crazy girlfriend syndrome?" and I told my bf that's a sign she is trying to get u away from me!!! She obviously doesn't want to know me
You know what. I see everyone's point. But u seem not to understand something. I added some of the guys from his group too. I just want to get to know the people he is becoming friends with, and this is the first time it's been a struggle. He's usually down for introducing me to new people, and he gets mad if I hangout with guys that he doesn't know, so I don't do it. Unless he knows the guy too. This is mainly why im pissed
My girlfriends wanted to know who the girls i hung out with were and i didn't get upset, it didn't bother me at all, same as when i asked it didn't bother them, but then again why would it.
P.S.
Using foul language doesn't make your point of view more valid, and it doesn't make you seem like a more mature person.
"I know how a jelous woman asks questions".
- Not really you are but one person, not every woman.
If you are female, then you have no idea what im talking about when it comes to HOW some men go about cheating, some are way smarter and trickier than you know (hence your lack of understanding as to why he'd introduce a girl he might sleep with).
"as if to say I'm watching you"
- thats quite a paranoid assumption
Being in a long lasting, good relationship doesn't give you knowledge on that kind of issue at all, infact it makes it less likely that you have dealt with these problems before.
P.s using foul language is appropriate when speaking to idiots, who over dramatize a girls very common and understandable actions.
I'm not over-dramatizing anything, I just say it like it is. You are right, those are very common and understandable actions, so is a breakup or divorce.
And if speaking to an idiot would justify foul language, I should be talking like a sailor when conversing with you.
If you know so much about it, then how come you can't even spell it!
And you think im dumb...
Ps. It's not "what is a jealous woman" It's "what a jealous woman is" You fucking illiterate.
BTW, "And you think im dumb..." should be spelled with I'm instead of im, and in the end it should say "You ARE fucking illiterate", or "You ARE A fucking illiterate.", both can work. Now why don't you show me how smart and mature you are by showing me all the other curse words you learned in school?
PS. From your other posts I see you had quite a few rocky relationships, sounds like you don't know how to keep a woman, and that is why you're not a man.
And if it's not your native language then why didn't you say, as i wouldn't have spoken to you in the first place. No way am i being told anything by a fucking immigrant.
But once again, you have proven your ignorance on the matter, by touching subjects which are completely irrelevant to the issue. Honestly, more and more I get the feeling that I'm talking with a know-it-all kid. I'll tell you what, when you'll learn how to keep a woman, talk to me, you might've had many rocky relationships, but if you still can't keep one, you learned nothing from them, I'll give you a tip, every relationship gets rocky at some point, that's the real test, its always easy when things are fresh and there is a lot of passion.
PS.
Third grade grammar lesson.
A sentence must have a verb, therefore you can't say "you illiterate", you must say "you are an illiterate", the "are" serves as the verb. If you don't believe me, ask an English teacher.
example, a web page i found at random- pinterest.com/ooelioo/educate-yourself-you-illiterate
Now fuck off back to mexico.
Don't ever let someone tell you not to ask questions or stand up for yourself. Because someone who loves you will completely understand that they must mean something to you or you wouldn't ask in the first place.