Is it normal for my girlfriend to prefer to spend the night or sleep in the same bed as her girlfriend over me? Her friend whom I met once via the internet came over tonight. She's a out of town friend maybe a college friend. Me and my girlfriend have been together now for about 2years now if not more. Honestly we don't get too much time to be romantic. We both work long hours and she tends to bring her work home with her. We don't get to spend a lot of quality time together. To be frank we have sex like once every 3 1/2 months. Twice if I'm lucky. I admit I am jelious. My feelings are hurt because she would rather spend the night with her in my girlfriends bed then me her boyfriend. Okay again this is them in a bedroom and me out in the living room on a futon. I was like no in my head I'm going to my parents house which is like 10mins away. Prior to her coming over the girlfriends friend. My girlfriend let me know like a day or two in advance. I think she even mentioned sleeping arrangements over a text message. We joked but I didn't know she was tottaly serious. When I was packing my stuff up and finished up ironing clothes for work which is 7hours away from now she walked me outside and said you don't have to go liz said she would stay on the futon. In my mind I didn't want to spoil her night but I was still uncomfortable with the whole idea in general and earlier liz was laying down on the futon with her head on my girls leg. I didn't like it. Is this normal behavior or bullshit? She is 28 and I am 25. Not that matters. Please all comments are welcome. Need advice.