I've been officially dating my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years now, I love her to death and I couldn't be more happy. But with every great fairy tale, I guess there's always some sort of bump in the road. Basically since the beginning of to college my girlfriend has joined a sorority(were still freshman). This sorority is by no means a crazy weird type sorority, it's actually pretty chill. Regardless, It sort of takes up a lot of her time, it seems like she always has something better to do then hang out with me or hit me up on t he phone just to talk or go out to eat or something that couples just do. I feel as though I give her to much attention, and I feel as though I am to good a boyfriend to her, and there is not much reciprocation. I mean she loves me, she does everything for me, it's just weird because we go to the same college and I don't see her as much as I think I should. For example Thursday she goes to the same club with her friends, Friday she hangs with her friends again usually and sometimes Saturdays(and she see's nothing wrong with this). She also has lunch with them all the time, has sorority meetings and mixers. I play football so I'm sort of busy myself, but I really do make and effort to make time for her, and she truly doesn't for me. I really think it is affecting our relationship for me at least she knows how I feel yet I don't think she sees anything wrong with us not hanging out that much. She cares a lot about her friends and her social life is very important to her, I realize this but she doesn't balance me and her friends very well at all. She said she was going to change, but I really haven't seen any improvement thus far, usually it's just initially then it fades with time and she goes back to her old self. I don't really want to break up with her, I don't think I could live without the woman. But should I give her a taste of her own medicine? Should I just act like I don't care at all, ignore her and make her feel how I feel?....or should I keep trying to make efforts to be around her moreÃ¢â‚¬Â¦I'd appreciate positive feedback, I only want advice, so any negative stuff just save it, cuhz I'll delete it anyways,thanks.