MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 2 YEARS BUT TOGETHER FOR 4... WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD A NORMAL SEX LIFE... NOTHING OTHER THAN VERY CONSEVATIVE.... HE HAS RECENTLY SKED ME TO SOME THINGS OUT OF THE BLUE THAT HE KNOWS I AM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH.... THE ONE THAT BOTHERS ME THE MOST IS HIM ASKING ME TO PRETEND I WAS A GUY...AND DO THINGS THAT WOULD GO ON WITH A GAY COULPLE.... IT MADE ME FEEL VERY UNCOMFORTABLE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP....AND WHEN I FIRST MET HIM I THOUGHT HE WAS GAY.... AND HE IS IN THE SERVICE AND IS AROUND NOTHING BUT MEN NOW... SO IT LEAVES ME WONDERING IF MAYBE IT IS JUST NOW COMING OUT... WHAT SHOULD I DO... AND HOW SHOULD I DEAL WITH IT...?I AM SO CONFUSED....
If it's the former, there's still hope.
So that makes him, like you, pretty conservative. The question to me is can you reconcile your sexual interests? You might want to get counseling for yourself there to sort out your feelings and you might want to give your guy some credit for opening up to you. I hope you don't flame him for that.