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Is It Normal For My Parents to Hate My Passion?
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I LOVE to draw! And I draw all the time! I have drawn since I was 5 years old. And I REALLY love that I have the ability to express myself.

I draw mythical creatures, the characters I make up, comics, animals, and ...whatever comes to mind!

I draw what I feel and it helps me unleash emotions or conditions I worry about, as well as it just being fun.

...But my family HATES it. They despise my art and they say "what the fuck is that worthless piece of shit supposed to be?" whenever they see it. (Which is why I don't show them anymore)
Whenever I try to explain what it is, they tell me that I am fucked up.

They are unsupportive of my talent and they even say how much they hate art of any kind (translation...mine...) when I am standing right in front of them.

Not like I really care what they think, because I love my passion and have worked my way around their negative attitudes and simply ignore them. But I was just wondering if any other person’s parents are so unsupportive of their art/passion.
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unless the pictures you draw are of the devil ass raping jesus,then this is not normal of them to say such things.
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I laughed a lot at this. haha
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so did I XD
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Wow, this makes me angry....

HELL NO it's not normal for them to be that way towards your passion! I am so glad that you haven't let it affect you in a negative way. You sound like an amazing artist to me, and I hope you find someone who'll really appreciate your beautiful creations some day.

Hey, maybe you could post some of your art on here for us if you wanted to? I would certainly enjoy it :)
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Your family are dick heads. No parent should suppress or talk down on their kids talents! What they should be doing is supporting your love of art!

Don't ever stop drawing, and don't take what they say to heart. I wish I could draw, but sadly, was not gifted as an artist!
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join deviantart, ( you can up load your work and compare it with oter peoples,)
my parents have allways supported me with my art, but then again I do come frome a artzy family. (but more in the musical sence) I can imagine why some parents aren't supportive, but to say they hate your art? that's horrible!!.
don't worry about it. just keep on drawring and you will get better don't let others tear you down. it's a good hobby and talent that so many ppl would like to posses.
just think the next time they say something like that, at least you have a passion, I know so many people who have no passions I just can't stop thinking how boring there lives must be and how I'm so happy I'm not like them.
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no one respects art today, only math and science. Follow your passion and never let other ppl sway you from it.
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ebulliance
This makes me angry. They're dickheads. Fuck them. They should show you love even if its stick figures.
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They sound like horrible people. If you dont have anything nice to say then dont say anything at all.. I wish I could bitch-slap them and tell them that. I think parents are like that, I'm a drawer as well and my parents are unsuportive of it as well. They always say that it isnt going to get me anywhere. Maybe they treat your drawing like that because they think you cant make a living off drawing. Anyways don't take anything of what they say to heart there being idiots as long as you can see the potential in them that should be enough. Keep up the good work!
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Some parents have no idea what they're doing! Little Richard's father forced him into boxing to try and get him to quit being so sensitive and musical. Michelangelo's dad grew up in wealth and thought it disgraceful for someone to earn a living by 'working with his hands', though he came around, he spent years (and money) trying to get his son to be a businessman. Jamaica Kincaid is a writer with numerous awards who had to change her own name to get away from her family, who never cared about her writing and only wanted her to work to support them. My point; someday you will be like them, doing want you love and living the life you want and people will be stunned (if not already) that your parents are so ridiculous!
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alv1592
Wow, that makes me sick. Any normal parent would want their children to pursue their dreams. But try not to let it get you down, keep doing what makes you happy. I'd like to see your artwork; mythical creatures are pretty awesome!
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it is ABSOLUTELY normal for your parents to do that (if you are trying become a professional artist,doesn't mean it is right though, if you do it for fun however they are horrible parents and it isn't normal.) but if you think it is right for you, you should keep drawing. I have the same problem I speak 6 languages and love litterature and my parents don't want me to study what i want (Languages or litterature, obviously) so i understand you. I also understand our parents though they want what's best for us in their own fucked up, obsessively controlling way...
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'Tis a shame you can't kick their asses. It's not normal and rather abusive. Don't listen to them. Go to college and study art.

Good Luck!
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Fuck parents who act like this! They should support that u like this and who u r!
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Geez , It's that is so horrible of them. They should be supportive of you.
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my parents DEFINITELY don't support my passion...making subwoofer boxes and then using them (gets a little loud) but they aren't like that, they just say i should find something better to do with my time
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You're a squarer
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deb
I'm sorry your family is not supportive :(
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kittylitter101
It's just drawing, my god...
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Unless your art is all crude charcoal drawings of animals destroying human genitalia or something, your parents are dicks.
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Sad. I teach piano and some parents (mainly dads), when informed by their spouse that their kid REALLY wants to learn piano and they've already talked to me about starting lessons, are all like: "WTF kind of insanity are you trying to push on MY kid???"
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1000yrVampireKing
Your parents sound like shit holes. I am so sorry you had to grow up in such a household. You do not deserve this for being creative. Unless you are drawing porn they should not be like this. You are normal and do not let anyone take that away from you.
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briebrie
No it's not normal your family r mean, jealous, fucked up cunts in my opinion. Sorry I'm angry now coz I hate it when parents despise there children's passions its just wrong!
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I think it's normal for artists. My parents always told me art is an unsustainable field and waste if time, and blew my chance at art school. They told me its only a hobby. I worked at a book company not long ago and made lots of money as a teen making websites. I now am trying to start/finish a collection for private sale. I show none of my art to them because they expect it to be angels, roosters, dogs, and god bless america...
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